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Think. Design. Create….YOU!
Hello You! I was that image consultant who mastered the techniques, delivered structure, color, style… But something still bothered me. It wasn’t a lack of commitment: It was a lack of depth. There is definitely a shallow element to any industry focused on appearances, but I think of it this way. Fashion is just the surface and when speaking about the surface sometimes it is very difficult to see what lies beneath. It is hard to distill much from the quotes / social media accounts, etc. of fashion industry people because often times they are attempting to project an image. Usually that image involves things that are somewhat trite –…
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“Let it Flow, Let it Be, and Let it Come to Me”.
Things arrive. Solutions appear. What was dark becomes bright —such are the cycles of life. No sea is only rising. No sky is only storms. No season is only cold. No cycle is only decline. I know, there are times when life challenges us—a lot. But the way out will never be despair, but rather the faith that everything falls into place in its own time. In the meantime, our greatest mission is to take care of ourselves and continue building the version of ourselves we will be proud of when the weather improves. “First you become the person, then you live the reality.” This phrase, which I heard from…
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Be You! : Fashion and the Herd Effect
Hello You! In the search for belonging, many people end up following the “herd effect,” adopting fashion trends simply because they are popular. However, fashion should be a unique expression of who you are. As Coco Chanel said, “Fashions fade, style remains.” This personal style is what sets you apart from others, and not every popular trend needs to be in your wardrobe. The herd effect refers to the phenomenon in which individuals imitate the actions of a group, often ignoring their own preferences and individuality. In fashion, this can mean adopting pieces or styles that, while modern, don’t reflect your essence or flatter your body type. A classic example…
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Six Limiting Beliefs About Style You Should Ignore
Hello You! I was recently thinking about all the fashion “rules” that exist and how they can limit our ability to step into our true style. I generally disregard the fashion dos and don’ts, unless they apply to fit and proportion, but for those who still think you have to abide by those outdated and arbitrary ideas, it’s time to rethink things. Below are six outdated fashion myths we’ve been led to believe, and ways you can do things differently. 1.“You’re too old to be fashionable and stylish” Great style is attainable at any age. Look at style icon like Iris Apfel! She was over 100 and was killin’ the…
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Live Life Ambitchiously Stylishly!
Hello You! When you feel comfortable and authentic in what you wear, it radiates confidence to the outside world. Knowing your style is like having a secret weapon in your arsenal of self-confidence. Well, I won’t really save the day (or do your laundry) but I will give you all the ideas/ tools you need to find your unique magical style. I’m Thiago, and I am the Chief Design Officer that sleek-high pony: The Posh Mess. I am an expert in “life styling,” which is basically code for helping you get yours back on track and charging forward. I like to use what I call the ‘’(Your Name’s Style Roadmap”)…
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Denim On Denim!
Hello You! These days, it seems like denim washes, fits, and rises cycle through periods of popularity every week rather than every decade. (Remember actual trend cycles? Me neither 😉 Because of that, reporting on such changes in the jeans space can, at times, feel repetitive. I’m not going to do that. Instead, I’ve chosen to focus my time and energy on the ways that chic people are wearing their jeans as opposed to the types of jeans they’re wearing. Denim pieces, depending on the quality, can last a lifetime, so invest in jackets, pants, shorts and shirts that will last a long time and that will certainly complement your outfits. Plus, combining them into complete denim looks is…
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How To Mix Antique Furniture Into Contemporary Décor
Hello You! Contemporary décor offers a diverse setting, bringing countless possibilities for expressing PERSONAL STYLE. So much so that it often becomes difficult to decide which approach to follow. It’s not always simple to identify your personal style, but know that if you like antique furniture this is an excellent way to bring personality to your space. Combining the ancient with the contemporary can create visually rich and engaging spaces where the past and present intertwine harmoniously. Furthermore, the insertion of antique furniture can be linked to family heirlooms, bringing emotional memory and history to the decoration of your home. Contrast You may believe that you shouldn’t mix old with…
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If You Want to Improve Your Style, Give It a Name
Hello You! It may sound funny, but the truth is that the quest to improve your style and make it more authentic doesn’t start with the clothes you wear, but with a full and enlightened perception of who you are or the things you like. We confuse fashion consumption with style, and perhaps that’s exactly why we’re dissatisfied with what we wear. Our dream is for someone to give us the protagonist’s “makeover,” take us shopping, and change our entire wardrobe (hello, “The Princess Diaries”!). But what about when Mia needs to buy something for herself? Will she really know how to continue this revolution that was created solely from…
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How to Create a Gallery Wall Like a Pro
Hello Posh Tribe and Art Enthusiasts, Gallery walls are a beautiful, personal way to add character to your home and fill blank wall spaces. It’s easy to design a gallery wall with your favorite art and photos, 3D elements, textile hangings and more. And the best part is that you don’t need a lot of space to make it work Creating a diverse gallery wall can be a fun and creative way to showcase your personal style and add a unique touch to any room. However, it can also be overwhelming to know where to start and what to do (or not do) to create a cohesive and visually appealing display.…
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5 Ways to Stretch Your Wardrobe
Hello my Posh friends, When I talk to people about style, I often hear two concerns: “I have a closet full of clothes and nothing to wear.” OR “I get tired of wearing my pieces the same way repeatedly. I have run out of ideas.” It can be easy to get stuck in a fashion rut. With all our daily activities and busy schedules, it can be a challenge to think about ways to get the most out of our wardrobes, and I get it. In response, I have put together a list of 5 ways to help spark creativity and use your existing pieces to create the illusion of…




















