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The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

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  • Creative Solutions,  Design,  fashion,  Fashion Design,  Retail,  The Posh Mess

    If You Want to Improve Your Style, Give It a Name

    Hello You!  It may sound funny, but the truth is that the quest to improve your style and make it more authentic doesn’t start with the clothes you wear, but with a full and enlightened perception of who you are or the things you like. We confuse fashion consumption with style, and perhaps that’s exactly why we’re dissatisfied with what we wear. Our dream is for someone to give us the protagonist’s “makeover,” take us shopping, and change our entire wardrobe (hello, “The Princess Diaries”!). But what about when Mia needs to buy something for herself? Will she really know how to continue this revolution that was created solely from…

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  • Creative Solutions,  Design,  fashion,  Fashion Design,  Retail,  The Posh Mess

    7 Tips to Keep in Mind When Thrifting

    Hello Posh Squad, I’ve been a thrift fashion consumer for many years. But I confess that it was from mid-2021 that I started buying more consciously. Thrift store shopping takes patience and self-control, but you can find some of the best items at consignment shops like your local Goodwill store or the Salvation Army. There’s a strategy to becoming an efficient thrifter, and if you do it often enough, you can end up with great finds at much lower prices than you would at a standard retail store. I bought some pieces during the year that I would never find in stores, first because they are no longer available, second…

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    7 Reasons To Buy At Thrift Stores

    Buying at thrift stores is a practice that is becoming more popular every day. This habit has even become popular, since several celebrities began to be present at gala events wearing second-hand costumes. As an example, we can mention Gisele Bündchen herself, who at the Met Gala 2023, bet on a vintage look to cross the red carpet. However, very different from what some people imagine, thrift stores were not created recently. On the contrary: the exchange of used clothes is very old and, according to historians, has been happening since 1900, when the population of the suburbs of Paris, in the Saint Ouen region, was adept at the famous…

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    5 Tips To Help Boost Your Style

    Hi Posh Squad, I can’t believe we’re approaching the summer, are you on track to achieve your style goals? Hopefully the answer is yes — but if not — and you’re stuck and have no idea from where to start, here are 5 tips to help stimulate your style: 1 – Start thinking of your ability to get dressed as a gift instead of a chore. Your personal style is an opportunity for you to show up for yourself. Reframing the act of getting dressed as something positive can be the mind shift you need to better embrace style, have fun with this challenge 🙂 2 – Put on your…

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    Why Loungewear Is The New Fashion Trend

    2020 changed our lives in a big way. It’s also safe to say it dramatically changed the way we dress. With the need to socially distance ourselves and work from home, those svelte party dresses and smart office wear have seen the inside of our wardrobes for almost a year now. However, fashion evolves, through seasons, through the need for sustainability…even through a pandemic. And we have witnessed, first-hand, the rise of loungewear. As we continue to spend more time in our homes, the loungewear trend is likely to have a long life. 2020 saw almost everyone resort to loungewear during the quarantine. 2021 will be the year they found…

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    4 Reasons Why Basics Are An Important Part Of Your Closet

    Hello Posh Squad, When working with clients or helping friends, I emphasize the importance of including a healthy mix of basics, in addition to statement pieces, into their wardrobes. What are wardrobe basics, anyway? Basics are those items that can serve many purposes and are a great foundation for dressing well. Examples include a great pair of jeans, black dress pants, button down shirts, shells, tanks, t-shirts, and more. They are often understated and can either play the background or take center stage — depending on the outfit. What’s the right mix of basics and statement pieces? The ratio of basics to statement pieces will be different for every woman,…

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    What’s your ”Style Personality”?

    How you define your style preferences?  How to know yourself in today’s world, where we have more than ever the freedom to express your individuality, values and style preferences? The key to looking great isn’t following all of the latest fashion trends. It’s staying true to your personal style. But what if you don’t know what your style is? You can develop your unique style by searching for inspiration, creating a mood board, and experimenting with fashion. What’s your personal style? Style refers to a person’s particular way of expressing themselves—whether that’s through clothing, writing style, or a style of architecture. In the fashion world, “style” is usually shorthand for “personal…

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    Fashion & Lifestyle

    Many people question this and ask us if it would be just one thing. And the answer is: no. It’s not the same thing and I’m here to explain the difference between them. Fashion is a clothing trend determined at a time and reflects the behavior of society within the contexts in which it is inserted. Style is a set of factors, such as our personality, influences, beliefs, experiences and everything else that concerns our essence. It is he who guarantees a more consistent look, respecting who we are, which brings a deeper bias. This is one of the big differences between fashion and style! Fashion walks with the collective,…

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Chief Design Officer @ The Posh Mess - ''The Trendy Setter'' - :) * Fashion, Design and Lifestyle Savvy. * Known for being a free spirit with a gypsy soul. *Gifted shopper, Chatty Person, and a natural Jet Setter. * Born to be REAL, not PERFECT !!

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YouTube Video UCzsMu4M7DAko5tSITGl2oWQ_V38qcYmkGwM Hello You! 

We welcome you to The Posh Mess, a channel dedicated to personal style as an art form. We believe everyone deserves to feel empowered and beautiful by embracing their individuality rather than just following trends. 

We provide creative solutions rooted in your unique personality and core values, offering personal style tips and resources across fashion, home decor, lifestyle, and shopping advice. 

Whether you're a fashion designer, enthusiast, or feeling stuck and uninspired, we're here to help you elevate your look and transform your everyday life into a reflection of who you truly are.

Sending you Peace , Love & Light! 

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Hello You! 

We welcome you to The Posh Mess, a channel dedicated to personal style as an art form. We believe everyone deserves to feel empowered and beautiful by embracing their individuality rather than just following trends. 

We provide creative solutions rooted in your unique personality and core values, offering personal style tips and resources across fashion, home decor, lifestyle, and shopping advice. 

Whether you're a fashion designer, enthusiast, or feeling stuck and uninspired, we're here to help you elevate your look and transform your everyday life into a reflection of who you truly are.

Sending you Peace , Love & Light! 

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#PersonalStyle #FashionTips #StyleInspo #IndividualityMatters #SelfConfidence #FashionAdvice #LifestyleDesign #SustainableFashion #HomeDecor #ThePoshMess #StyleTransformation #FashionEnthusiast #UniqueStyle #EmpowermentThroughStyle #creativesolutions
Welcome to The Posh Mess
We explore how your personal style isn't random—it's your soul expressing itself through what you wear. We discuss the Soul Style Roadmap, a journey beyond trends and rules that helps you uncover your authentic self. We talk about how dressing from your core transforms your confidence, presence, and energy, and why creating your own style matters more than copying others. 
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The Soul Style Roadmap: Style From Within
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Im so over extreme minimal, white, boring and no personality interiors.☝🏾

We all need something that matches our personality, something that incorporates elements of our daily lives and our history. Although I love minimalism, it has its limits. I love houses with amazing travel objects, plants, elements that show that someone actually lives there.

I call this Eclectic Minimalism: a combination of the clean, simple lines and functionality of minimalism with the personality, texture, and carefully selected aesthetics of eclectic design. It's for those who appreciate the tranquility of minimalism but want to infuse their spaces with personality, coziness, and a sense of individuality. It strikes a harmonious balance between order and creativity, making the environment both functional and inspiring.

If you like the form and functionality of minimalism but still want the unique touch of your favorite accent pieces or personal treasures, you may find that eclectic minimalism is the perfect aesthetic for you.💁🏾✨

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Eclectic Minimalism: Balancing Serenity and Style
Hello You! 

For a successful personal style positioning, your image must represent who you are, your uniqueness, and your essence! 

If you want a strategic image, remember the 3 Cs:

* Comfort
* Confidence
* Creativity

The "3 Cs" for personal style are Comfort, Confidence, and Creativity. This framework helps you build outfits by intentionally balancing how they feel (Comfort), how they make you feel about yourself (Confidence), and how they express your unique personality (Creativity).

Even if you start by making small tweaks to your existing wardrobe, using this method makes a huge difference in creating outfits that feel like you instead of like someone else. 

Using the Three Word Method can be a quick, easy way to help add dimension and personality to any outfit with just a quick mental scan of your choices and your goals. 

Give it a try, and see if it helps you discover or refine your style!
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Building Outfits with the 3Cs for Personal Style
The art of living is not just about our ability to survive and meet our daily needs. Living is also an expression of who we are, our passions, our dreams and, of course, our style. We often hear the phrase “living with style”, but what does that really mean? And how does it apply to our daily lives?

Check it out! 

This is the first video of a series to discover “Your Style Roadmap”
What’s your “STYLE” | Ep.1
Hello You! 

Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space almost always runs into the same problem: constant clutter, the feeling that everything never fits, and the frustration of seeing their dream turn into chaos (we are in this together Boo). The truth is, a small walk-in closet isn’t impossible; it just requires following a few rules to make the space work. A small space is part of real life, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic. I’d say: well-designed closets aren’t about size, but strategy.

I’ll show you the real secret to a “well-designed” small closets, check it out in the link below:

https://theposhmess.com/heres-the-secret-to-a-well-designed-small-closet/

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Here is secret to a “well-designed” small closet
🔖Principles of The Soul Style ✨
Hello You! 

We often let fear paralyze us, and that’s what happened to me in the last few years. I’ve already shared on my social media a few times how my relationship with my personal image was greatly compromised and damaged by this 4-letter word. 

F E A R

They’re two syllables, but when put together they gain superpower. The thing is, this power will be as big as we let it be. 

We can worry about our image without getting stuck in this loop of fear and insecurity through self-knowledge. It seems crazy, but when you know who you are, what you want to say and how to do it, you become stronger in a way that fear will exist (spoiler: it will always exist) but you will be so confident in your truth that you WILL GO SCARED ANYWAY!

This outburst is to say that I am back, after a break to reorganize my ideas and my life. I am ready for this new chapter and even more ready to share not only technical knowledge, but also my point of view, my way of being (even if someone will judge) and the person that I am! That is why we will have more and more sincere conversations on social media, texts written from the bottom of my heart here on the blog and a YouTube channel that has always been a dream of mine!

We will discover the content format, the frequency of posts and the topics covered together along the way of this giant rollercoaster that is life. I hope you enjoy following this journey! 

✨Be Yourself 🧜🏾‍♂️
⚡️Create Yourself 💁🏾
💫Express Yourself 🙆🏾

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ 
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✨ Good vibes and picnic times. ✨

☝🏾 Don’t let Monday steal your Sunday.” 💁🏾

Sending 🫵🏾 Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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✨ Good vibes and picnic times. ✨

☝🏾 Don’t let Monday steal your Sunday.” 💁🏾

Sending 🫵🏾 Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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theposhmess Jul 13

Once in a while you do something once in a lifetime….

With gratitude, today and forever!
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Once in a while you do something once in a lifetime….

With gratitude, today and forever! 
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#styleconfidence #soulstyle #summervibes #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Jul 6

Hello You!

This is a reminder that you can be bold, be different, be you and still break through ceilings no one thought could shatter.

Your authenticity is triggering to people who are pretending to be what you truly are!

☝🏾 To everyone who sees themselves in me - the dreamers, the misfits, the beautifully misunderstood:..

🫵🏾Your uniqueness is your superpower.⚡️

Stay loud. 📣
Stay true. 🦹🏾‍♂️
Stay lit by your own fire.🔥

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

This is a reminder that you can be bold, be different, be you and still break through ceilings no one thought could shatter.

Your authenticity is triggering to people who are pretending to be what you truly are! 

☝🏾 To everyone who sees themselves in me - the dreamers, the misfits, the beautifully misunderstood:..

🫵🏾Your uniqueness is your superpower.⚡️

Stay loud. 📣 
Stay true. 🦹🏾‍♂️
Stay lit by your own fire.🔥

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#beyourself #personalstyle #unique #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Jul 4

True freedom isn’t just about casting off our own chains, but living in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others.

Be free to be exactly who YOU ARE today, and give yourself the grace to figure it out as you go.

Happy Freedom Day! 🙌🏾🇺🇸

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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#4thjuly #freedom #independence #theposhmess #freestyle

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True freedom isn’t just about casting off our own chains, but living in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others.

Be free to be exactly who YOU ARE today, and give yourself the grace to figure it out as you go.

Happy Freedom Day! 🙌🏾🇺🇸

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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theposhmess Jun 25

💁🏾 A reminder that you can be bold, be different, be you and still break through ceilings no one thought could shatter.

Your authenticity is triggering to people who are pretending to be what you truly are!

To everyone who sees themselves in me the dreamers, the misfits, the beautifully misunderstood:

✨Your uniqueness is your superpower.✨

📣 Stay loud. Stay true. Stay lit by your own fire.🔥

🫵🏾 Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾,Love ❤️& Light ✨- Thi
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#SelfLove #AuthenticBeauty #MirrorWork #SelfAcceptance #MentalWellness

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💁🏾 A reminder that you can be bold, be different, be you and still break through ceilings no one thought could shatter.

Your authenticity is triggering to people who are pretending to be what you truly are! 

To everyone who sees themselves in me the dreamers, the misfits, the beautifully misunderstood:

✨Your uniqueness is your superpower.✨

📣 Stay loud. Stay true. Stay lit by your own fire.🔥 

🫵🏾 Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾,Love ❤️& Light ✨- Thi
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theposhmess Jun 23

✨The sun stood still, so I danced. ✨

Thank you @deise_dnc you’re an 👼

“Smell the sea and feel the sky. Let your soul and spirit fly.” — Van Morrison
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#SummerSolstice #SolsticeParade #MindsetShift #WildAndFree

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✨The sun stood still, so I danced. ✨

Thank you @deise_dnc you’re an 👼 

“Smell the sea and feel the sky. Let your soul and spirit fly.” — Van Morrison 
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Hello You!

Your image isn’t vanity, it’s visual strategy.⁣

Image is considered a strategy rather than vanity because it functions as a deliberate tool to manage perceptions, build credibility, and influence outcomes before a single word is spoken.

While vanity is self-indulgent, visual strategy is an investment in professional visibility, trust-building, and career growth.

In the Soul Style Roadmap , I guide you along this path.
So that your image reflects what is most valuable about you: your essence.

Click the link in the bio and join now.
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Hello You! 

Your image isn’t vanity, it’s visual strategy.⁣

Image is considered a strategy rather than vanity because it functions as a deliberate tool to manage perceptions, build credibility, and influence outcomes before a single word is spoken. 

While vanity is self-indulgent, visual strategy is an investment in professional visibility, trust-building, and career growth.

In the Soul Style Roadmap , I guide you along this path.
So that your image reflects what is most valuable about you: your essence.

Click the link in the bio and join now.
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#personalimagebranding #style #thesoulstyle #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Jun 8

Hello You!

Most people still view personal style merely as a matter of aesthetics. The fact is, image is a form of language.

It communicates presence, perception, intention, and positioning before a single word is even spoken. Therefore, building an aligned image does not mean creating a persona or dressing in a way that fails to reflect your true essence.

Refining your style / personal image is about gaining clarity on who you are, the message you wish to convey, and how you want to be perceived.

When there is intention, image ceases to be superficial. It becomes an EXPRESSION.

Check it out @theposhmess for more tips and inspiration to Lifestyling your “style journey”!
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Hello You! 

Most people still view personal style merely as a matter of aesthetics. The fact is, image is a form of language.

It communicates presence, perception, intention, and positioning before a single word is even spoken. Therefore, building an aligned image does not mean creating a persona or dressing in a way that fails to reflect your true essence. 

Refining your style / personal image is about gaining clarity on who you are, the message you wish to convey, and how you want to be perceived.

When there is intention, image ceases to be superficial. It becomes an EXPRESSION.

Check it out @theposhmess for more tips and inspiration to Lifestyling your “style journey”! 
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#authenticstyle #beyourself #styleconfidence #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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