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Think. Design. Create….YOU!
Hello You! I was that image consultant who mastered the techniques, delivered structure, color, style… But something still bothered me. It wasn’t a lack of commitment: It was a lack of depth. There is definitely a shallow element to any industry focused on appearances, but I think of it this way. Fashion is just the surface and when speaking about the surface sometimes it is very difficult to see what lies beneath. It is hard to distill much from the quotes / social media accounts, etc. of fashion industry people because often times they are attempting to project an image. Usually that image involves things that are somewhat trite –…
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“Let it Flow, Let it Be, and Let it Come to Me”.
Things arrive. Solutions appear. What was dark becomes bright —such are the cycles of life. No sea is only rising. No sky is only storms. No season is only cold. No cycle is only decline. I know, there are times when life challenges us—a lot. But the way out will never be despair, but rather the faith that everything falls into place in its own time. In the meantime, our greatest mission is to take care of ourselves and continue building the version of ourselves we will be proud of when the weather improves. “First you become the person, then you live the reality.” This phrase, which I heard from…
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Be You! : Fashion and the Herd Effect
Hello You! In the search for belonging, many people end up following the “herd effect,” adopting fashion trends simply because they are popular. However, fashion should be a unique expression of who you are. As Coco Chanel said, “Fashions fade, style remains.” This personal style is what sets you apart from others, and not every popular trend needs to be in your wardrobe. The herd effect refers to the phenomenon in which individuals imitate the actions of a group, often ignoring their own preferences and individuality. In fashion, this can mean adopting pieces or styles that, while modern, don’t reflect your essence or flatter your body type. A classic example…
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Finding Your Soul Style
Hello You! The art of living is not just about our ability to survive and meet our daily needs. Living is also an expression of who we are, our passions, our dreams and, of course, our style. We often hear the phrase “living with style”, but what does that really mean? And how does it apply to our daily lives? We all have a unique personality that is reflected in our daily choices, from the music we listen to to the food we eat. And fashion is no different. Your personal style is an extension of who you are, and finding and embracing it can be an empowering and revealing…
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Six Limiting Beliefs About Style You Should Ignore
Hello You! I was recently thinking about all the fashion “rules” that exist and how they can limit our ability to step into our true style. I generally disregard the fashion dos and don’ts, unless they apply to fit and proportion, but for those who still think you have to abide by those outdated and arbitrary ideas, it’s time to rethink things. Below are six outdated fashion myths we’ve been led to believe, and ways you can do things differently. 1.“You’re too old to be fashionable and stylish” Great style is attainable at any age. Look at style icon like Iris Apfel! She was over 100 and was killin’ the…
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Live Life Ambitchiously Stylishly!
Hello You! When you feel comfortable and authentic in what you wear, it radiates confidence to the outside world. Knowing your style is like having a secret weapon in your arsenal of self-confidence. Well, I won’t really save the day (or do your laundry) but I will give you all the ideas/ tools you need to find your unique magical style. I’m Thiago, and I am the Chief Design Officer that sleek-high pony: The Posh Mess. I am an expert in “life styling,” which is basically code for helping you get yours back on track and charging forward. I like to use what I call the ‘’(Your Name’s Style Roadmap”)…
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Minimaluxe: Doing More With Less
Hello Posh Tribe, An increasingly popular design style is Minimaluxe. The word in English combines “minimalism” and “luxury”, which may seem strange at first glance, right? In reality, this decoration trend is characterized by a clean and organized aesthetic that relies on high-quality materials and elements. This way, the environment can be warm and intimate. Did you find it confusing? Follow the post to understand what minimaluxe is and how to adopt it in your home in simple ways that make all the difference! What is Minimaluxe? A lot has changed in recent years – we went through a pandemic that forced us to find space for activities and tasks…
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Step Into The New Year In Style!
Happy New Year Posh Tribe 🙂 The start of a new year is typically a time when people make resolutions, set goals, and begin putting in the work to improve the quality of their lives. If you haven’t taken the steps to evaluate your style and how you show up for yourself, I’d like for you to include that in your plans for the new year. It can be easy to fall into a style rut and not put much effort into your appearance — especially after what we’ve been through over the past couple of years… But think about the last time you wore an outfit that made you…
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So Long 2023, Looking Ahead to 2024!
For me — 2023 — like most years, was filled with its share of highs and lows. I’m incredibly grateful for all the wonderful people in my life — and for all the amazing experiences I’ve been able to participate in. Tough times — a blessing in disguise? I’m grateful for the hard times also. It was hard for me to type that, because I would prefer to not experience tough times, but they’re a reality of life. Difficulties can teach us the most valuable lessons, but we have to be open to receiving the messages. (I’m speaking to myself also.) Bet on yourself The most gratifying experiences in my…
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5 Suggestions For Homemade Air Freshener (Easy Recipes)
Nobody likes a stinky house, there are so many simple tricks I’ve learned over the years to freshen up and add fabulous scents to your home! A simple and effective way to give a special touch to your home, making it more cozy and inviting, is through the use of homemade air fresheners. Therefore, below I have separated some easy recipes for you to create your own homemade air freshener. Check it out! Lavender Without a doubt, one of the most popular flavorings is lavender – a special plant that can provide relaxation and calm. Therefore, separate: 1/2 cup distilled water1/2 cup grain alcohol20 drops of lavender essential oilTo prepare,…






















