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The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

'The Posh Mess helps you discover your Soul Style — the design practice behind an identity, a closet, and a home that finally feel like you.'

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  • Creative Solutions,  Fashion Design,  Lifestyle,  Retail,  The Posh Mess

    5 Tips To Help Boost Your Style

    Hi Posh Squad, I can’t believe we’re approaching the summer, are you on track to achieve your style goals? Hopefully the answer is yes — but if not — and you’re stuck and have no idea from where to start, here are 5 tips to help stimulate your style: 1 – Start thinking of your ability to get dressed as a gift instead of a chore. Your personal style is an opportunity for you to show up for yourself. Reframing the act of getting dressed as something positive can be the mind shift you need to better embrace style, have fun with this challenge 🙂 2 – Put on your…

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    Simple Self-Care Activities To Start With

    Many people aspire to take better care of themselves; to find a better balance between their work and life.  Taking some time out to refocus is a great, simple way to do that. Our mental and physical wellbeing is so much more important than we may realize and so we need to devote time to it.  Here are some simple self care activities you can start with, maybe this weekend. 1. Put Your Phone In A Drawer Firstly, one of the best and most effective self care activities is to simply switch your phone off and put it in a drawer. Leave it there. Forget about it. Go on a…

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    The Posh Mess

    In February 2022, I was going through a challenging time in my life and needed a creative outlet to help me redirect my energy. I decided to dip my toe in the water of style blogging and tried to think of a name that represented my point of view about style and fashion based on what I really am — and “The Posh Mess” was born.  The word “posh” is defined as smart, elegant, or fashionable; exclusive: posh clothes and I knew that’s what I want to convey” — a sense of fearlessness when it comes to style. I’ve always been mesmerized by fashion, and all the pretty and sometimes…

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    Closet Detox

    With the change from the winter season to the summer season and starting again with the routine after a well-deserved vacation, I have given myself the task of organizing my closet to renew the energy in my spaces and build my outfits more easily without getting hysterical with the phrase “I have nothing to wear”. So I was aware of the whole process and decided to make a post about it and give you some important tips that will help you optimize your space and time. Closer Pick Step 1.- Take out all your clothes Yes, even if it seems that a hurricane has passed through your room, you must…

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    Wellness and Jet Set

    * Sometimes it can feel like maintaining a healthy lifestyle is an overwhelming challenge that doesn’t fit within the realities of daily life. It’s tough to hold down a full-time job, eat well, train for a marathon, make homemade green juice, spend quality time with your family/partner, and meditate for an hour each day. 😰 * Of course, healthy living can incorporate all of these things (if you want it to), but it doesn’t have to be defined by grandiose displays of health and fitness. * So much of healthy living is really made up of small things we do daily—things that are so small they don’t feel momentous, but…

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    What Is a Creative Solution? The Creative Process Design (Interior, Fashion, etc.) bring together two different things: artistic creation and the practical world of commerce. Put simply, it is intelligence / Vision made tridimensional, physical and possible. A designer is a creative artist who deals with the realities of planning, from assessing client needs and crafting a solution to selecting appropriate materials (papers, inks, glues, and varnishes), maintaining strict budgets, and understanding the aesthetics. The Design A designer must make connections between creativity and process in the mind in order to successfully communicate a message to an audience and answer a client’s needs. What Is a Creative Solution? At its…

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Thiago Eloi

Chief Design Officer @ The Posh Mess - ''The Trendy Setter'' - :) * Fashion, Design and Lifestyle Savvy. * Known for being a free spirit with a gypsy soul. *Gifted shopper, Chatty Person, and a natural Jet Setter. * Born to be REAL, not PERFECT !!

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Hello You! Every “soul” has their own way of creating magic, but there are principles that never Hello You! 

Every “soul” has their own way of creating magic, but there are principles that never go out of style.

These truths are what make your work not just poshnable, but unforgettable.

Watch these 6 principles and let them guide you every time you style.

Which principle speaks to you most? Let me know in the comments!

📌 Save this for your soul style journey.
↗️ Share it with a fellow creative who needs this reminder.

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Hello You! 

Every “soul” has their own way of creating magic, but there are principles that never go out of style.

These truths are what make your work not just poshnable, but unforgettable.

Watch these 6 principles and let them guide you every time you style.

Which principle speaks to you most? Let me know in the comments!

📌 Save this for your soul style journey.
↗️ Share it with a fellow creative who needs this reminder.

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Hello You! Every “soul” has their own way of creating magic, but there are principles that never
Hello You! 

Many people still believe that personal image is about “fitting into standards” or “following what’s in fashion.”
In fact, it’s quite the opposite.

The image that communicates is one that grows from the inside out.

👉🏾When you understand your essence, your characteristics, your color, your lifestyle, and even the message you want to leave in the world, it all makes sense.

This is the difference between FASHION and STYLE strategy: one uniforms you, the other reveals you. #Capisci 💁🏾

💬Tell me: do you feel that your image today reveals who
you really are? Drop a comment or shoot me a message…

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! Many people still believe that personal image is about “fitting into standards” or
Strolling Around…🚶🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♀️✌🏾
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“If you are in a bad mood, go for a walk. If you are still in a bad mood, go for another walk.” - Hippocrates 
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Strolling Around…🚶🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♀️✌🏾 . “If you are in a bad mood, go for a walk
Hello You! 

Everyone has their own perception of what fashion means to them; and why they appreciate the industry in the first place. For many people, fashion is a form of art, a way of being, and a creative avenue for self-expression; but does everyone view fashion this way?

Is it art; or is it about fitting in with social media?

Is it self expression; or is it the pressures of consumerism influencing you?

Is it creativity, or is it validation?

Is your pull towards fashion stemming from internal forces, or external forces?

It’s quite rare for fashion magazines to educate their readers on the art form of fashion; or the importance of personal style. Readers find themselves learning the latest trends, tips, styling and news; but when are readers ever educated on self-expression?

Individuals who’ve cultivated a personal style; perceive fashion as art, but if personal style lacks commonality; how does the rest of the population view fashion?

Observe and reflect upon your own style journey; and ask yourself, is fashion really about self-expression for you?

Let me know in the comments 👇🏾💁🏾✨💋
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Hello You! Everyone has their own perception of what fashion means to them; and why they
Hello You!

Sometimes, the world around us seems a little dull, life can seem gray and colorless. In those moments, we always need to remember our role, our purpose, and above all, our inner light.

When everything seems dark, make your light shine brighter and illuminate the world. Where color is lacking, use your smile to color life. If you encounter thorns, be the beautiful and delicate flower, after all, “you have to endure two or three caterpillars to get to know the butterflies... they say they are so beautiful!”…

You only see the beauty of a rainbow if you know the rain. 🤷🏾‍♀️

- From Me To Myself on rainy day 💁🏾✨

Sending You Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Hello You! Sometimes, the world around us seems a little dull, life can seem gray and colorless
Hello You!

It’s no use following a “trend” if your personal image doesn’t have a clear, consistent, and coherent positioning that aligns with your essence!

You are unique in the world,the best strategy to boost your “soul style” and achieve your goals is to show what makes you different and more special: YOURSELF!

Create Soul Authenticity isn’t just a buzzword. It’s the foundation of trust and credibility!

“I have a Sunday-to-Sunday kind of relationship.”

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Hello You! It’s no use following a “trend” if your personal image doesn’t have a clear, consistent,
Hello You! 💁🏾✨

For a successful personal style positioning, your image must represent who you are, your uniqueness, and your essence! 

If you want a strategic image, remember the 3 Cs:

* Comfort ☺️
* Confidence 💪🏾
* Creativity 🦹🏾‍♂️

This framework helps you build outfits by intentionally balancing how they feel (Comfort), how they make you feel about yourself (Confidence), and how they express your unique personality (Creativity).

Even if you start by making small tweaks to your existing wardrobe, using this method makes a huge difference in creating outfits that feel like you instead of like someone else. 

Using the Three Word Method can be a quick, easy way to help add dimension and personality to any outfit with just a quick mental scan of your choices and your goals. 

Give it a try, and see if it helps you discover or refine your style!

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 💁🏾✨ For a successful personal style positioning, your image must represent who you
May the treasures of the present become the golden memories of tomorrow! Merry Christmas everyone 💋

Sending you lots of Joy, Happiness, Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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May the treasures of the present become the golden memories of tomorrow! Merry Christmas everyone
Hello You! 💁🏾✨

In a world that encourages imitation, staying true to your own essence is an act of courage—and also a strategy.

Your image is a reflection of who you are. But it’s also what makes people decide whether they trust you, whether they buy from you, and whether they remember you.

This is the foundation of my work—and also what led me to write about “Style with Purpose” and to develop a method (in progress …) that connects your soul with your unique style. 

+Authenticity is what sets you apart. 

+Strategy is what sustains you.

Want to learn how to position yourself with truth and purpose?

Send me a direct message or access the link in my bio! Also stay tuned for more coming soon….

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#theposhmess #style #photography #instagram #fashionblogger
Hello You! 💁🏾✨ In a world that encourages imitation, staying true to your own essence is an act
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Hello You! ✨

Style isn’t static—it grows, shifts, and matures right along with you. Looking back at what you wore five years ago, what is one style choice you’ve completely outgrown, and what replaced it?

Real style alignment happens when your wardrobe reflects the person you are today, not who you used to be.

Share your style evolution in the comments below!
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#PersonalStyle #StyleEvolution #SoulStyle #ThePoshMess #ImageConsulting

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Hello You! ✨

Style isn’t static—it grows, shifts, and matures right along with you. Looking back at what you wore five years ago, what is one style choice you’ve completely outgrown, and what replaced it?

Real style alignment happens when your wardrobe reflects the person you are today, not who you used to be.

Share your style evolution in the comments below! 
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Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#PersonalStyle #StyleEvolution #SoulStyle #ThePoshMess #ImageConsulting
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theposhmess Oct 18

Keep doing GREAT sweetie! 💋✌🏾✨
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#FashionPsychology #StyleConfidence #SelfExpression #DressForYourself #ConfidenceThroughStyle MindfulFashion

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Keep doing GREAT sweetie! 💋✌🏾✨
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theposhmess Oct 15

Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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#birthdayreflection #PersonalGrowth #Resilience #AlwaysEvolving #ThePoshMess

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Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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theposhmess Oct 5

Hello You!

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle

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Hello You! 

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle
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theposhmess Oct 4

☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

………….Know your worth and add taxes ☝🏾⭐️
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☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

………….Know your worth and add taxes ☝🏾⭐️
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theposhmess Sep 30

I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

You’re welcome 💋
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#style #theposhmess #counciousfashion #beyou #blackexcellence

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I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

You’re welcome 💋
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theposhmess Sep 22

Hello You!

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#beyou #outandloud #self #theposhmess #blackexcellence

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Hello You! 

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#beyou #outandloud #self #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Sep 20

☀️Summer never goes out of “Style” ✨

Tan lines fade, memories last forever…until next time, summer!
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#summer2026 #summervibes #hellosummer #theposhmess #blackexcellence

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☀️Summer never goes out of “Style” ✨

Tan lines fade, memories last forever…until next time, summer!
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#summer2026 #summervibes #hellosummer #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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