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The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

'The Posh Mess helps you discover your Soul Style — the design practice behind an identity, a closet, and a home that finally feel like you.'

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  • Creative Solutions,  Design,  Fashion Design,  Interior Design,  The Posh Mess

    You’re Saving Your Style for a Life You’re Not Living

    Hello, you! You have clothes you never wear. Not because they don’t fit, not because you don’t like them. You don’t wear them because you’re waiting. (I’ve been there.) You’re waiting for the right moment, the right body, the right event; some future version of yourself that will arrive complete and finally deserve the things you’ve already chosen. What you don’t realize is that, while you wait, you’re not standing still. You’re moving away. … and suddenly we’re not talking about clothes. We’re talking about identity. Because wardrobes are rarely just wardrobes. They’re more like little archives of our past selves. The jacket that stays on the hanger, the shoes…

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    Be You! : Fashion and the Herd Effect

    Hello You!  In the search for belonging, many people end up following the “herd effect,” adopting fashion trends simply because they are popular. However, fashion should be a unique expression of who you are. As Coco Chanel said, “Fashions fade, style remains.” This personal style is what sets you apart from others, and not every popular trend needs to be in your wardrobe. The herd effect refers to the phenomenon in which individuals imitate the actions of a group, often ignoring their own preferences and individuality. In fashion, this can mean adopting pieces or styles that, while modern, don’t reflect your essence or flatter your body type. A classic example…

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    Finding Your Soul Style

    Hello You! The art of living is not just about our ability to survive and meet our daily needs. Living is also an expression of who we are, our passions, our dreams and, of course, our style. We often hear the phrase “living with style”, but what does that really mean? And how does it apply to our daily lives? We all have a unique personality that is reflected in our daily choices, from the music we listen to to the food we eat. And fashion is no different. Your personal style is an extension of who you are, and finding and embracing it can be an empowering and revealing…

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    Six Limiting Beliefs About Style You Should Ignore

    Hello You! I was recently thinking about all the fashion “rules” that exist and how they can limit our ability to step into our true style. I generally disregard the fashion dos and don’ts, unless they apply to fit and proportion, but for those who still think you have to abide by those outdated and arbitrary ideas, it’s time to rethink things. Below are six outdated fashion myths we’ve been led to believe, and ways you can do things differently. 1.“You’re too old to be fashionable and stylish” Great style is attainable at any age. Look at style icon like Iris Apfel! She was over 100 and was killin’ the…

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    Live Life Ambitchiously Stylishly!

    Hello You! When you feel comfortable and authentic in what you wear, it radiates confidence to the outside world. Knowing your style is like having a secret weapon in your arsenal of self-confidence. Well, I won’t really save the day (or do your laundry) but I will give you all the ideas/ tools you need to find your unique magical style. I’m Thiago, and I am the Chief Design Officer that sleek-high pony: The Posh Mess. I am an expert in “life styling,” which is basically code for helping you get yours back on track and charging forward. I like to use what I call the ‘’(Your Name’s Style Roadmap”)…

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    Denim On Denim!

    Hello You! These days, it seems like denim washes, fits, and rises cycle through periods of popularity every week rather than every decade. (Remember actual trend cycles? Me neither 😉 Because of that, reporting on such changes in the jeans space can, at times, feel repetitive. I’m not going to do that. Instead, I’ve chosen to focus my time and energy on the ways that chic people are wearing their jeans as opposed to the types of jeans they’re wearing.  Denim pieces, depending on the quality, can last a lifetime, so invest in jackets, pants, shorts and shirts that will last a long time and that will certainly complement your outfits. Plus, combining them into complete denim looks is…

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    If You Want to Improve Your Style, Give It a Name

    Hello You!  It may sound funny, but the truth is that the quest to improve your style and make it more authentic doesn’t start with the clothes you wear, but with a full and enlightened perception of who you are or the things you like. We confuse fashion consumption with style, and perhaps that’s exactly why we’re dissatisfied with what we wear. Our dream is for someone to give us the protagonist’s “makeover,” take us shopping, and change our entire wardrobe (hello, “The Princess Diaries”!). But what about when Mia needs to buy something for herself? Will she really know how to continue this revolution that was created solely from…

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    5 Ways to Stretch Your Wardrobe

    Hello my Posh friends, When I talk to people about style, I often hear two concerns: “I have a closet full of clothes and nothing to wear.” OR  “I get tired of wearing my pieces the same way repeatedly. I have run out of ideas.” It can be easy to get stuck in a fashion rut. With all our daily activities and busy schedules, it can be a challenge to think about ways to get the most out of our wardrobes, and I get it. In response, I have put together a list of 5 ways to help spark creativity and use your existing pieces to create the illusion of…

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    ”Quiet Luxury” is the 2023 Trend That Still Deserves Attention

    Quiet luxury is more than just a decoration trend; It is a lifestyle that values balance, quality and serenity, where luxury whispers rather than shouts. Unlike other styles that may seem overly extravagant, quiet luxury adopts the “less is more” philosophy. It embraces simplicity and sophistication, creating an environment that exudes effortless elegance. So, find out more about this trend right now and how to adopt it in your home in simple ways. The ”Quiet Luxury” Concept First of all, you may have already understood that this style of decor offers a much-needed escape from the fast pace of modern life. With the chaos of the world outside, having a…

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    Minimalism: What it is, Features, Decor Tips and Photos

    If minimalism could be defined in just one sentence, that sentence would be “less is more”. Most likely you’ve heard it before and it’s no wonder. This phrase is super famous and has never lost contemporaneity. It won the world at a time when modernism was on the rise in Europe and the person responsible for saying these words was the German architect Ludwig Mies van der Rohe, professor at the Bauhaus and one of the first to introduce the idea of minimalism in architecture. and project. . Want to know more about minimalism? So come follow this post with us, we can assure you that this is a movement…

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Chief Design Officer @ The Posh Mess - ''The Trendy Setter'' - :) * Fashion, Design and Lifestyle Savvy. * Known for being a free spirit with a gypsy soul. *Gifted shopper, Chatty Person, and a natural Jet Setter. * Born to be REAL, not PERFECT !!

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Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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Hello You!

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle

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Hello You! 

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle
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theposhmess Oct 4

☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

………….Know your worth and add taxes ☝🏾⭐️
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☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

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theposhmess Sep 30

I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

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theposhmess Sep 22

Hello You!

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#beyou #outandloud #self #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Sep 20

☀️Summer never goes out of “Style” ✨

Tan lines fade, memories last forever…until next time, summer!
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☀️Summer never goes out of “Style” ✨

Tan lines fade, memories last forever…until next time, summer!
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#summer2026 #summervibes #hellosummer #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Sep 14

Hello You!

Clothing is more than fabric. It’s a form of self-expression, a source of comfort, and sometimes even armor. What you put on in the morning can set the tone for your day, impact your mood, and influence your confidence.

Whether you’re dressing up for a big presentation or pulling on your favorite cozy hoodie at home, your wardrobe decisions may be affecting your mental and emotional state more than you think.

If you’re navigating challenges with self-esteem and identity , you’re not alone and I’m here to help you find your “soul style” —and your confidence—one outfit at a time.✌🏾✨🪡

☝🏾Be Posh. Be Messy. Be You.⚡️

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

Clothing is more than fabric. It’s a form of self-expression, a source of comfort, and sometimes even armor. What you put on in the morning can set the tone for your day, impact your mood, and influence your confidence. 

Whether you’re dressing up for a big presentation or pulling on your favorite cozy hoodie at home, your wardrobe decisions may be affecting your mental and emotional state more than you think.

If you’re navigating challenges with self-esteem and identity , you’re not alone and I’m here to help you find your “soul style” —and your confidence—one outfit at a time.✌🏾✨🪡

☝🏾Be Posh. Be Messy. Be You.⚡️ 

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#fashionpsycology #dopewithintention #enrichedclothing #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Sep 6

Hello You!

In recent years, the dopamine style of dressing has gained increasing popularity on the streets and on social media. The proposal was created to offer a cheerful atmosphere when dressing, increasing the feeling of well-being and humor.

It is important to emphasize that the dopamine dressing is a libertarian style and that many times it should not take into account the opinion of others. Self-acceptance is the key point to start forming beautiful looks to look good with yourself, regardless of “beauty standards” or fashion trends.

But ultimately, if you’re looking to encourage feelings of happiness and contentment through your own wardrobe, you don’t need to turn to a specific colour, just look to what you already know you love.

“Figure out what you associate with confidence and joy – and wear it!” !!

Sending you Peace ✌🏾,Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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#dressforhoy #joyfuldressing #WearTheGoodMood #theposhmess #blackexcellence

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Hello You! 

In recent years, the dopamine style of dressing has gained increasing popularity on the streets and on social media. The proposal was created to offer a cheerful atmosphere when dressing, increasing the feeling of well-being and humor.

It is important to emphasize that the dopamine dressing is a libertarian style and that many times it should not take into account the opinion of others. Self-acceptance is the key point to start forming beautiful looks to look good with yourself, regardless of “beauty standards” or fashion trends.

But ultimately, if you’re looking to encourage feelings of happiness and contentment through your own wardrobe, you don’t need to turn to a specific colour, just look to what you already know you love.

“Figure out what you associate with confidence and joy – and wear it!” !!

Sending you Peace ✌🏾,Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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#dressforhoy #joyfuldressing #WearTheGoodMood #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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