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The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

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  • Creative Solutions,  fashion,  Fashion Design,  Lifestyle,  The Posh Mess

    Be You! : Fashion and the Herd Effect

    Hello You!  In the search for belonging, many people end up following the “herd effect,” adopting fashion trends simply because they are popular. However, fashion should be a unique expression of who you are. As Coco Chanel said, “Fashions fade, style remains.” This personal style is what sets you apart from others, and not every popular trend needs to be in your wardrobe. The herd effect refers to the phenomenon in which individuals imitate the actions of a group, often ignoring their own preferences and individuality. In fashion, this can mean adopting pieces or styles that, while modern, don’t reflect your essence or flatter your body type. A classic example…

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    Denim On Denim!

    Hello You! These days, it seems like denim washes, fits, and rises cycle through periods of popularity every week rather than every decade. (Remember actual trend cycles? Me neither 😉 Because of that, reporting on such changes in the jeans space can, at times, feel repetitive. I’m not going to do that. Instead, I’ve chosen to focus my time and energy on the ways that chic people are wearing their jeans as opposed to the types of jeans they’re wearing.  Denim pieces, depending on the quality, can last a lifetime, so invest in jackets, pants, shorts and shirts that will last a long time and that will certainly complement your outfits. Plus, combining them into complete denim looks is…

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    If You Want to Improve Your Style, Give It a Name

    Hello You!  It may sound funny, but the truth is that the quest to improve your style and make it more authentic doesn’t start with the clothes you wear, but with a full and enlightened perception of who you are or the things you like. We confuse fashion consumption with style, and perhaps that’s exactly why we’re dissatisfied with what we wear. Our dream is for someone to give us the protagonist’s “makeover,” take us shopping, and change our entire wardrobe (hello, “The Princess Diaries”!). But what about when Mia needs to buy something for herself? Will she really know how to continue this revolution that was created solely from…

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    Accessorize Me

    Accessories have an absurd power in the final result of any production, any look. They add information, make the look richer and can even transform a basic outfit into another super trendy one full of style. Get to know the items that enhance the clothes you already have at home, it’s a smart way to put together cool looks. Evidencing the glamor of already powerful productions, highlighting delicacy, adding shine and color to the simplest and everyday looks, enhancing the beauty of each woman, are some of the functions of accessories in our daily lives.Accessories fulfill this mission in all styles, they reach all women and guarantee their place on…

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    7 Tips to Keep in Mind When Thrifting

    Hello Posh Squad, I’ve been a thrift fashion consumer for many years. But I confess that it was from mid-2021 that I started buying more consciously. Thrift store shopping takes patience and self-control, but you can find some of the best items at consignment shops like your local Goodwill store or the Salvation Army. There’s a strategy to becoming an efficient thrifter, and if you do it often enough, you can end up with great finds at much lower prices than you would at a standard retail store. I bought some pieces during the year that I would never find in stores, first because they are no longer available, second…

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    Why Loungewear Is The New Fashion Trend

    2020 changed our lives in a big way. It’s also safe to say it dramatically changed the way we dress. With the need to socially distance ourselves and work from home, those svelte party dresses and smart office wear have seen the inside of our wardrobes for almost a year now. However, fashion evolves, through seasons, through the need for sustainability…even through a pandemic. And we have witnessed, first-hand, the rise of loungewear. As we continue to spend more time in our homes, the loungewear trend is likely to have a long life. 2020 saw almost everyone resort to loungewear during the quarantine. 2021 will be the year they found…

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    4 Reasons Why Basics Are An Important Part Of Your Closet

    Hello Posh Squad, When working with clients or helping friends, I emphasize the importance of including a healthy mix of basics, in addition to statement pieces, into their wardrobes. What are wardrobe basics, anyway? Basics are those items that can serve many purposes and are a great foundation for dressing well. Examples include a great pair of jeans, black dress pants, button down shirts, shells, tanks, t-shirts, and more. They are often understated and can either play the background or take center stage — depending on the outfit. What’s the right mix of basics and statement pieces? The ratio of basics to statement pieces will be different for every woman,…

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    What’s your ”Style Personality”?

    How you define your style preferences?  How to know yourself in today’s world, where we have more than ever the freedom to express your individuality, values and style preferences? The key to looking great isn’t following all of the latest fashion trends. It’s staying true to your personal style. But what if you don’t know what your style is? You can develop your unique style by searching for inspiration, creating a mood board, and experimenting with fashion. What’s your personal style? Style refers to a person’s particular way of expressing themselves—whether that’s through clothing, writing style, or a style of architecture. In the fashion world, “style” is usually shorthand for “personal…

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    Fashion & Lifestyle

    Many people question this and ask us if it would be just one thing. And the answer is: no. It’s not the same thing and I’m here to explain the difference between them. Fashion is a clothing trend determined at a time and reflects the behavior of society within the contexts in which it is inserted. Style is a set of factors, such as our personality, influences, beliefs, experiences and everything else that concerns our essence. It is he who guarantees a more consistent look, respecting who we are, which brings a deeper bias. This is one of the big differences between fashion and style! Fashion walks with the collective,…

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Chief Design Officer @ The Posh Mess - ''The Trendy Setter'' - :) * Fashion, Design and Lifestyle Savvy. * Known for being a free spirit with a gypsy soul. *Gifted shopper, Chatty Person, and a natural Jet Setter. * Born to be REAL, not PERFECT !!

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Hello You!

Clothing is more than fabric. It’s a form of self-expression, a source of comfort, and sometimes even armor. What you put on in the morning can set the tone for your day, impact your mood, and influence your confidence.

Whether you’re dressing up for a big presentation or pulling on your favorite cozy hoodie at home, your wardrobe decisions may be affecting your mental and emotional state more than you think.

If you’re navigating challenges with self-esteem and identity , you’re not alone and I’m here to help you find your “soul style” —and your confidence—one outfit at a time.✌🏾✨🪡

☝🏾Be Posh. Be Messy. Be You.⚡️

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

Clothing is more than fabric. It’s a form of self-expression, a source of comfort, and sometimes even armor. What you put on in the morning can set the tone for your day, impact your mood, and influence your confidence. 

Whether you’re dressing up for a big presentation or pulling on your favorite cozy hoodie at home, your wardrobe decisions may be affecting your mental and emotional state more than you think.

If you’re navigating challenges with self-esteem and identity , you’re not alone and I’m here to help you find your “soul style” —and your confidence—one outfit at a time.✌🏾✨🪡

☝🏾Be Posh. Be Messy. Be You.⚡️ 

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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theposhmess Sep 6

Hello You!

In recent years, the dopamine style of dressing has gained increasing popularity on the streets and on social media. The proposal was created to offer a cheerful atmosphere when dressing, increasing the feeling of well-being and humor.

It is important to emphasize that the dopamine dressing is a libertarian style and that many times it should not take into account the opinion of others. Self-acceptance is the key point to start forming beautiful looks to look good with yourself, regardless of “beauty standards” or fashion trends.

But ultimately, if you’re looking to encourage feelings of happiness and contentment through your own wardrobe, you don’t need to turn to a specific colour, just look to what you already know you love.

“Figure out what you associate with confidence and joy – and wear it!” !!

Sending you Peace ✌🏾,Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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#dressforhoy #joyfuldressing #WearTheGoodMood #theposhmess #blackexcellence

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Hello You! 

In recent years, the dopamine style of dressing has gained increasing popularity on the streets and on social media. The proposal was created to offer a cheerful atmosphere when dressing, increasing the feeling of well-being and humor.

It is important to emphasize that the dopamine dressing is a libertarian style and that many times it should not take into account the opinion of others. Self-acceptance is the key point to start forming beautiful looks to look good with yourself, regardless of “beauty standards” or fashion trends.

But ultimately, if you’re looking to encourage feelings of happiness and contentment through your own wardrobe, you don’t need to turn to a specific colour, just look to what you already know you love.

“Figure out what you associate with confidence and joy – and wear it!” !!

Sending you Peace ✌🏾,Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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#dressforhoy #joyfuldressing #WearTheGoodMood #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Sep 3

Hello You!

Most people still view personal style merely as a matter of aesthetics. The fact is, image is a form of language.

It communicates presence, perception, intention, and positioning before a single word is even spoken. Therefore, building an aligned image does not mean creating a persona or dressing in a way that fails to reflect your true essence.

Refining your style / personal image is about gaining clarity on who you are, the message you wish to convey, and how you want to be perceived.

When there is intention, image ceases to be superficial. It becomes an EXPRESSION.

Check it out @theposhmess for more tips and inspiration to Lifestyling your “style journey”!

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#authenticstyle #beyourself #styleconfidence #theposhmess #blackexcellence

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Hello You! 

Most people still view personal style merely as a matter of aesthetics. The fact is, image is a form of language.

It communicates presence, perception, intention, and positioning before a single word is even spoken. Therefore, building an aligned image does not mean creating a persona or dressing in a way that fails to reflect your true essence. 

Refining your style / personal image is about gaining clarity on who you are, the message you wish to convey, and how you want to be perceived.

When there is intention, image ceases to be superficial. It becomes an EXPRESSION.

Check it out @theposhmess for more tips and inspiration to Lifestyling your “style journey”! 

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#authenticstyle #beyourself #styleconfidence #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Aug 30

✨“Your uniqueness* is not something to be hidden.
It’s exactly what the world needs to know.”⭐️

Every person in the world is unique, and that uniqueness is what sets them apart!

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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✨“Your uniqueness* is not something to be hidden.
It’s exactly what the world needs to know.”⭐️

Every person in the world is unique, and that uniqueness is what sets them apart!

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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theposhmess Aug 25

Hello You!

For a long time, we believed that having style meant copying references, following trends, or trying to look like someone we admire.

But the truth is, the most elegant style never stems from comparison.It emerges when you understand who you are, acknowledge the stage of life you’re in, and allow your image to evolve alongside that transformation.

Life changes. We change with it.

A new career, new city, a fresh start, an achievement, or even a loss leaves its mark on how we see ourselves and, naturally, this is reflected in the way we dress.

For me, style isn’t about creating a persona.
It’s about building an image that authentically reveals the person you have become.

Tell me: do you feel your image represents who you are today, or does it still convey an older version of yourself?

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

For a long time, we believed that having style meant copying references, following trends, or trying to look like someone we admire.

But the truth is, the most elegant style never stems from comparison.It emerges when you understand who you are, acknowledge the stage of life you’re in, and allow your image to evolve alongside that transformation.

Life changes. We change with it.

A new career, new city, a fresh start, an achievement, or even a loss leaves its mark on how we see ourselves and, naturally, this is reflected in the way we dress.

For me, style isn’t about creating a persona.
It’s about building an image that authentically reveals the person you have become.

Tell me: do you feel your image represents who you are today, or does it still convey an older version of yourself?

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#beyou #iconic #pharaonic #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Aug 19

Hello You!

What’s your “Style Personality”?

If you don’t know the answer, you’re not alone. Understanding how you define your style preferences is the first step to dressing authentically.

These four archetypes (based on personal preference and identity expression) help you recognize patterns in what you’re naturally drawn to, and why you keep reaching for the same safe choices.

Save this and come back to it next time you get dressed. Your wardrobe will make more sense.

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#styles #stylepersonality #soulstyle #theposhmess #blackexcellence

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Hello You! 

What’s your “Style Personality”? 

If you don’t know the answer, you’re not alone. Understanding how you define your style preferences is the first step to dressing authentically. 

These four archetypes (based on personal preference and identity expression) help you recognize patterns in what you’re naturally drawn to, and why you keep reaching for the same safe choices. 

Save this and come back to it next time you get dressed. Your wardrobe will make more sense.

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#styles #stylepersonality #soulstyle #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Aug 17

Hello You!

Our choices, from what we wear to how we decorate our homes, tell a story about who we are. Every detail is a window into our personality, our tastes and our passions.

The most important thing is to find a balance that is true to you. It’s not about dressing to impress others, but to feel good about yourself. It’s a form of self-care and self-expression.

Comment or DM “Style” and let’s chat about your style goals 😉

“Personality begins where comparison ends.” -Karl Lagerfeld

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

Our choices, from what we wear to how we decorate our homes, tell a story about who we are. Every detail is a window into our personality, our tastes and our passions.

The most important thing is to find a balance that is true to you. It’s not about dressing to impress others, but to feel good about yourself. It’s a form of self-care and self-expression.

Comment or DM “Style” and let’s chat about your style goals 😉

“Personality begins where comparison ends.” -Karl Lagerfeld

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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theposhmess Aug 16

Hello You!

Personal style is a powerful way to communicate your story to the world without ever uttering a single word. It is the outward manifestation of your inner expression—the art form of fashion. It is common to hear people discuss the differences between style and fashion: fashion being a general concept, and style, something more personal. While the mission of style should always be to remain true to oneself, one must also continuously seek to refine it over time. Consistent growth and the elevation of your style prevent you from falling into boredom, becoming creatively stagnant, or feeling uninspired. Furthermore, they ensure that your style keeps pace with your own personal growth and your maturity as a human being.

Always remember: it is not about trying to be different, but rather about knowing that you already are. One person might wear the most unusual and “outside-the-box” outfit imaginable, while another opts for a casual yet elegant look; yet, if the person with the casual and elegant look possesses the inner certainty that they are different, that conviction will fuel the growth of their personal style.

☝🏾“To be irreplaceable, one must always be different.”⭐️

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Hello You! 

Personal style is a powerful way to communicate your story to the world without ever uttering a single word. It is the outward manifestation of your inner expression—the art form of fashion. It is common to hear people discuss the differences between style and fashion: fashion being a general concept, and style, something more personal. While the mission of style should always be to remain true to oneself, one must also continuously seek to refine it over time. Consistent growth and the elevation of your style prevent you from falling into boredom, becoming creatively stagnant, or feeling uninspired. Furthermore, they ensure that your style keeps pace with your own personal growth and your maturity as a human being.

Always remember: it is not about trying to be different, but rather about knowing that you already are. One person might wear the most unusual and “outside-the-box” outfit imaginable, while another opts for a casual yet elegant look; yet, if the person with the casual and elegant look possesses the inner certainty that they are different, that conviction will fuel the growth of their personal style.

☝🏾“To be irreplaceable, one must always be different.”⭐️

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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