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The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

'The Posh Mess helps you discover your Soul Style — the design practice behind an identity, a closet, and a home that finally feel like you.'

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  • Creative Solutions,  fashion,  Fashion Design,  Lifestyle,  The Posh Mess

    Be You! : Fashion and the Herd Effect

    Hello You!  In the search for belonging, many people end up following the “herd effect,” adopting fashion trends simply because they are popular. However, fashion should be a unique expression of who you are. As Coco Chanel said, “Fashions fade, style remains.” This personal style is what sets you apart from others, and not every popular trend needs to be in your wardrobe. The herd effect refers to the phenomenon in which individuals imitate the actions of a group, often ignoring their own preferences and individuality. In fashion, this can mean adopting pieces or styles that, while modern, don’t reflect your essence or flatter your body type. A classic example…

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    Denim On Denim!

    Hello You! These days, it seems like denim washes, fits, and rises cycle through periods of popularity every week rather than every decade. (Remember actual trend cycles? Me neither 😉 Because of that, reporting on such changes in the jeans space can, at times, feel repetitive. I’m not going to do that. Instead, I’ve chosen to focus my time and energy on the ways that chic people are wearing their jeans as opposed to the types of jeans they’re wearing.  Denim pieces, depending on the quality, can last a lifetime, so invest in jackets, pants, shorts and shirts that will last a long time and that will certainly complement your outfits. Plus, combining them into complete denim looks is…

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  • Creative Solutions,  Design,  fashion,  Fashion Design,  Retail,  The Posh Mess

    If You Want to Improve Your Style, Give It a Name

    Hello You!  It may sound funny, but the truth is that the quest to improve your style and make it more authentic doesn’t start with the clothes you wear, but with a full and enlightened perception of who you are or the things you like. We confuse fashion consumption with style, and perhaps that’s exactly why we’re dissatisfied with what we wear. Our dream is for someone to give us the protagonist’s “makeover,” take us shopping, and change our entire wardrobe (hello, “The Princess Diaries”!). But what about when Mia needs to buy something for herself? Will she really know how to continue this revolution that was created solely from…

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  • Creative Solutions,  fashion,  Fashion Design,  The Posh Mess

    Accessorize Me

    Accessories have an absurd power in the final result of any production, any look. They add information, make the look richer and can even transform a basic outfit into another super trendy one full of style. Get to know the items that enhance the clothes you already have at home, it’s a smart way to put together cool looks. Evidencing the glamor of already powerful productions, highlighting delicacy, adding shine and color to the simplest and everyday looks, enhancing the beauty of each woman, are some of the functions of accessories in our daily lives.Accessories fulfill this mission in all styles, they reach all women and guarantee their place on…

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  • Creative Solutions,  Design,  fashion,  Fashion Design,  Retail,  The Posh Mess

    7 Tips to Keep in Mind When Thrifting

    Hello Posh Squad, I’ve been a thrift fashion consumer for many years. But I confess that it was from mid-2021 that I started buying more consciously. Thrift store shopping takes patience and self-control, but you can find some of the best items at consignment shops like your local Goodwill store or the Salvation Army. There’s a strategy to becoming an efficient thrifter, and if you do it often enough, you can end up with great finds at much lower prices than you would at a standard retail store. I bought some pieces during the year that I would never find in stores, first because they are no longer available, second…

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    Why Loungewear Is The New Fashion Trend

    2020 changed our lives in a big way. It’s also safe to say it dramatically changed the way we dress. With the need to socially distance ourselves and work from home, those svelte party dresses and smart office wear have seen the inside of our wardrobes for almost a year now. However, fashion evolves, through seasons, through the need for sustainability…even through a pandemic. And we have witnessed, first-hand, the rise of loungewear. As we continue to spend more time in our homes, the loungewear trend is likely to have a long life. 2020 saw almost everyone resort to loungewear during the quarantine. 2021 will be the year they found…

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    4 Reasons Why Basics Are An Important Part Of Your Closet

    Hello Posh Squad, When working with clients or helping friends, I emphasize the importance of including a healthy mix of basics, in addition to statement pieces, into their wardrobes. What are wardrobe basics, anyway? Basics are those items that can serve many purposes and are a great foundation for dressing well. Examples include a great pair of jeans, black dress pants, button down shirts, shells, tanks, t-shirts, and more. They are often understated and can either play the background or take center stage — depending on the outfit. What’s the right mix of basics and statement pieces? The ratio of basics to statement pieces will be different for every woman,…

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    What’s your ”Style Personality”?

    How you define your style preferences?  How to know yourself in today’s world, where we have more than ever the freedom to express your individuality, values and style preferences? The key to looking great isn’t following all of the latest fashion trends. It’s staying true to your personal style. But what if you don’t know what your style is? You can develop your unique style by searching for inspiration, creating a mood board, and experimenting with fashion. What’s your personal style? Style refers to a person’s particular way of expressing themselves—whether that’s through clothing, writing style, or a style of architecture. In the fashion world, “style” is usually shorthand for “personal…

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    Fashion & Lifestyle

    Many people question this and ask us if it would be just one thing. And the answer is: no. It’s not the same thing and I’m here to explain the difference between them. Fashion is a clothing trend determined at a time and reflects the behavior of society within the contexts in which it is inserted. Style is a set of factors, such as our personality, influences, beliefs, experiences and everything else that concerns our essence. It is he who guarantees a more consistent look, respecting who we are, which brings a deeper bias. This is one of the big differences between fashion and style! Fashion walks with the collective,…

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Thiago Eloi

Chief Design Officer @ The Posh Mess - ''The Trendy Setter'' - :) * Fashion, Design and Lifestyle Savvy. * Known for being a free spirit with a gypsy soul. *Gifted shopper, Chatty Person, and a natural Jet Setter. * Born to be REAL, not PERFECT !!

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Hello You! ✨

Style isn’t static—it grows, shifts, and matures right along with you. Looking back at what you wore five years ago, what is one style choice you’ve completely outgrown, and what replaced it?

Real style alignment happens when your wardrobe reflects the person you are today, not who you used to be.

Share your style evolution in the comments below!
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Hello You! ✨

Style isn’t static—it grows, shifts, and matures right along with you. Looking back at what you wore five years ago, what is one style choice you’ve completely outgrown, and what replaced it?

Real style alignment happens when your wardrobe reflects the person you are today, not who you used to be.

Share your style evolution in the comments below! 
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Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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theposhmess Oct 18

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theposhmess Oct 15

Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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theposhmess Oct 5

Hello You!

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle

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Hello You! 

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle
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theposhmess Oct 4

☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

………….Know your worth and add taxes ☝🏾⭐️
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☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

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theposhmess Sep 30

I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

You’re welcome 💋
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I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

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theposhmess Sep 22

Hello You!

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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