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If You Want to Improve Your Style, Give It a Name

Hello You!  It may sound funny, but the truth is that the quest to improve your style and make it more authentic doesn’t start with the clothes you wear, but…

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Creative Solutions, fashion, Fashion Design, Retail, The Posh Mess

Why Loungewear Is The New Fashion Trend

2020 changed our lives in a big way. It’s also safe to say it dramatically changed the way we dress. With the need to socially distance ourselves and work from…

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Denim On Denim!

Hello You! These days, it seems like denim washes, fits, and rises cycle through periods of popularity every week rather than every decade. (Remember actual trend cycles? Me neither 😉 Because of that, reporting on…

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Creative Solutions, Design, Fashion Design, Interior Design, The Posh Mess

Minimalism: What it is, Features, Decor Tips and Photos

If minimalism could be defined in just one sentence, that sentence would be “less is more”. Most likely you’ve heard it before and it’s no wonder. This phrase is super…

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The Posh Mess

In February 2022, I was going through a challenging time in my life and needed a creative outlet to help me redirect my energy. I decided to dip my toe…

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How To Mix Antique Furniture Into Contemporary Décor

Hello You! Contemporary décor offers a diverse setting, bringing countless possibilities for expressing PERSONAL STYLE. So much so that it often becomes difficult to decide which approach to follow. It’s…

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    Here’s the Secret to a Well-Designed Small Closet

    Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space almost always runs into the same problem: constant clutter, the feeling that everything never fits, and the frustration of seeing their dream turn into chaos (we are in this together Boo). The truth is, a small walk-in closet isn’t impossible; it just requires following a few rules to make the space work. A small space is part of real life, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic. I’d say: well-designed closets aren’t about size, but strategy. I’ll show you the real secret to a “well-designed” small closets, keep reading…. What Defines a Well-Designed…

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    Think. Design. Create….YOU!

    Hello You!  I was that image consultant who mastered the techniques, delivered structure, color, style… But something still bothered me. It wasn’t a lack of commitment: It was a lack of depth. There is definitely a shallow element to any industry focused on appearances, but I think of it this way. Fashion is just the surface and when speaking about the surface sometimes it is very difficult to see what lies beneath. It is hard to distill much from the quotes / social media accounts, etc. of fashion industry people because often times they are attempting to project an image. Usually that image involves things that are somewhat trite –…

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    “Let it Flow, Let it Be, and Let it Come to Me”.

    Things arrive. Solutions appear. What was dark becomes bright —such are the cycles of life. No sea is only rising. No sky is only storms. No season is only cold. No cycle is only decline. I know, there are times when life challenges us—a lot. But the way out will never be despair, but rather the faith that everything falls into place in its own time. In the meantime, our greatest mission is to take care of ourselves and continue building the version of ourselves we will be proud of when the weather improves. “First you become the person, then you live the reality.” This phrase, which I heard from…

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    Be You! : Fashion and the Herd Effect

    Hello You!  In the search for belonging, many people end up following the “herd effect,” adopting fashion trends simply because they are popular. However, fashion should be a unique expression of who you are. As Coco Chanel said, “Fashions fade, style remains.” This personal style is what sets you apart from others, and not every popular trend needs to be in your wardrobe. The herd effect refers to the phenomenon in which individuals imitate the actions of a group, often ignoring their own preferences and individuality. In fashion, this can mean adopting pieces or styles that, while modern, don’t reflect your essence or flatter your body type. A classic example…

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    Finding Your Soul Style

    Hello You! The art of living is not just about our ability to survive and meet our daily needs. Living is also an expression of who we are, our passions, our dreams and, of course, our style. We often hear the phrase “living with style”, but what does that really mean? And how does it apply to our daily lives? We all have a unique personality that is reflected in our daily choices, from the music we listen to to the food we eat. And fashion is no different. Your personal style is an extension of who you are, and finding and embracing it can be an empowering and revealing…

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    Six Limiting Beliefs About Style You Should Ignore

    Hello You! I was recently thinking about all the fashion “rules” that exist and how they can limit our ability to step into our true style. I generally disregard the fashion dos and don’ts, unless they apply to fit and proportion, but for those who still think you have to abide by those outdated and arbitrary ideas, it’s time to rethink things. Below are six outdated fashion myths we’ve been led to believe, and ways you can do things differently. 1.“You’re too old to be fashionable and stylish” Great style is attainable at any age. Look at style icon like Iris Apfel! She was over 100 and was killin’ the…

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    Live Life Ambitchiously Stylishly!

    Hello You! When you feel comfortable and authentic in what you wear, it radiates confidence to the outside world. Knowing your style is like having a secret weapon in your arsenal of self-confidence. Well, I won’t really save the day (or do your laundry) but I will give you all the ideas/ tools you need to find your unique magical style. I’m Thiago, and I am the Chief Design Officer that sleek-high pony: The Posh Mess. I am an expert in “life styling,” which is basically code for helping you get yours back on track and charging forward. I like to use what I call the ‘’(Your Name’s Style Roadmap”)…

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    Denim On Denim!

    Hello You! These days, it seems like denim washes, fits, and rises cycle through periods of popularity every week rather than every decade. (Remember actual trend cycles? Me neither 😉 Because of that, reporting on such changes in the jeans space can, at times, feel repetitive. I’m not going to do that. Instead, I’ve chosen to focus my time and energy on the ways that chic people are wearing their jeans as opposed to the types of jeans they’re wearing.  Denim pieces, depending on the quality, can last a lifetime, so invest in jackets, pants, shorts and shirts that will last a long time and that will certainly complement your outfits. Plus, combining them into complete denim looks is…

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    How To Mix Antique Furniture Into Contemporary Décor

    Hello You! Contemporary décor offers a diverse setting, bringing countless possibilities for expressing PERSONAL STYLE. So much so that it often becomes difficult to decide which approach to follow. It’s not always simple to identify your personal style, but know that if you like antique furniture this is an excellent way to bring personality to your space. Combining the ancient with the contemporary can create visually rich and engaging spaces where the past and present intertwine harmoniously. Furthermore, the insertion of antique furniture can be linked to family heirlooms, bringing emotional memory and history to the decoration of your home. Contrast You may believe that you shouldn’t mix old with…

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    If You Want to Improve Your Style, Give It a Name

    Hello You!  It may sound funny, but the truth is that the quest to improve your style and make it more authentic doesn’t start with the clothes you wear, but with a full and enlightened perception of who you are or the things you like. We confuse fashion consumption with style, and perhaps that’s exactly why we’re dissatisfied with what we wear. Our dream is for someone to give us the protagonist’s “makeover,” take us shopping, and change our entire wardrobe (hello, “The Princess Diaries”!). But what about when Mia needs to buy something for herself? Will she really know how to continue this revolution that was created solely from…

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Thiago Eloi

Chief Design Officer @ The Posh Mess - ''The Trendy Setter'' - :) * Fashion, Design and Lifestyle Savvy. * Known for being a free spirit with a gypsy soul. *Gifted shopper, Chatty Person, and a natural Jet Setter. * Born to be REAL, not PERFECT !!

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YouTube Video UCzsMu4M7DAko5tSITGl2oWQ_TnEx5xnCZrY Hello You! 

For a successful personal style positioning, your image must represent who you are, your uniqueness, and your essence! 

If you want a strategic image, remember the 3 Cs:

* Comfort
* Confidence
* Creativity

The "3 Cs" for personal style are Comfort, Confidence, and Creativity. This framework helps you build outfits by intentionally balancing how they feel (Comfort), how they make you feel about yourself (Confidence), and how they express your unique personality (Creativity).

Even if you start by making small tweaks to your existing wardrobe, using this method makes a huge difference in creating outfits that feel like you instead of like someone else. 

Using the Three Word Method can be a quick, easy way to help add dimension and personality to any outfit with just a quick mental scan of your choices and your goals. 

Give it a try, and see if it helps you discover or refine your style!
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Hello You! 

For a successful personal style positioning, your image must represent who you are, your uniqueness, and your essence! 

If you want a strategic image, remember the 3 Cs:

* Comfort
* Confidence
* Creativity

The "3 Cs" for personal style are Comfort, Confidence, and Creativity. This framework helps you build outfits by intentionally balancing how they feel (Comfort), how they make you feel about yourself (Confidence), and how they express your unique personality (Creativity).

Even if you start by making small tweaks to your existing wardrobe, using this method makes a huge difference in creating outfits that feel like you instead of like someone else. 

Using the Three Word Method can be a quick, easy way to help add dimension and personality to any outfit with just a quick mental scan of your choices and your goals. 

Give it a try, and see if it helps you discover or refine your style!
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#posh #poshmark #poshmarkseller #poshmarkcommunity #poshmarkcloset #instagood #reseller #photography #poshboss #like #resellercommunity #photooftheday #poshmarkreseller #beautiful #instagram #poshmarkambassador #follow #poshmarkapp #fashion #model #ootd #poshstyle #beauty #poshlove #picoftheday #poshmarkstyle #fashionblogger #mercari #happy #poshmarklife #homedecor #instagood #smallcloset
Building Outfits with the 3Cs for Personal Style
The art of living is not just about our ability to survive and meet our daily needs. Living is also an expression of who we are, our passions, our dreams and, of course, our style. We often hear the phrase “living with style”, but what does that really mean? And how does it apply to our daily lives?

Check it out! 

This is the first video of a series to discover “Your Style Roadmap”
What’s your “STYLE” | Ep.1
Hello You! 

Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space almost always runs into the same problem: constant clutter, the feeling that everything never fits, and the frustration of seeing their dream turn into chaos (we are in this together Boo). The truth is, a small walk-in closet isn’t impossible; it just requires following a few rules to make the space work. A small space is part of real life, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic. I’d say: well-designed closets aren’t about size, but strategy.

I’ll show you the real secret to a “well-designed” small closets, check it out in the link below:

https://theposhmess.com/heres-the-secret-to-a-well-designed-small-closet/

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#homedecor #smallcloset #tips #theposhmess #instagood
Here is secret to a “well-designed” small closet
🔖Principles of The Soul Style ✨
Hello You! 

We often let fear paralyze us, and that’s what happened to me in the last few years. I’ve already shared on my social media a few times how my relationship with my personal image was greatly compromised and damaged by this 4-letter word. 

F E A R

They’re two syllables, but when put together they gain superpower. The thing is, this power will be as big as we let it be. 

We can worry about our image without getting stuck in this loop of fear and insecurity through self-knowledge. It seems crazy, but when you know who you are, what you want to say and how to do it, you become stronger in a way that fear will exist (spoiler: it will always exist) but you will be so confident in your truth that you WILL GO SCARED ANYWAY!

This outburst is to say that I am back, after a break to reorganize my ideas and my life. I am ready for this new chapter and even more ready to share not only technical knowledge, but also my point of view, my way of being (even if someone will judge) and the person that I am! That is why we will have more and more sincere conversations on social media, texts written from the bottom of my heart here on the blog and a YouTube channel that has always been a dream of mine!

We will discover the content format, the frequency of posts and the topics covered together along the way of this giant rollercoaster that is life. I hope you enjoy following this journey! 

✨Be Yourself 🧜🏾‍♂️
⚡️Create Yourself 💁🏾
💫Express Yourself 🙆🏾

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ 
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✨You Gotta Be You ✨
✨Crafting stories, sharing passions, one creation at a time. ✨
Hello Posh Tribe,

Do you have a closet full of clothes and “nothing to wear”? 

That’s probably because you’re used to styling your clothes one or two ways, so your outfits start to feel stale and old. But you don’t have to buy a new wardrobe every season to have a fresh, trendy, and polished look. You just need to learn a few new ways to rework the pieces you already have. 

That’s why I’m giving you these three easy fashion formulas that will simplify putting together a gorgeous, unique outfit every day.

These fashion formulas are easy to recreate, and you can adapt them to your own style, using the pieces you already have in your closet. You can utilize all three, or you can employ just one or two. Either way, you’re sure to get a put-together look!

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How To Create The Perfect Outfit Formula
Hello Posh Tribe!

Peach Fuzz is the COLOR of 2024 according to Pantone.

The color Peach Fuzz is a light peach tone, with a pinkish nuance and a touch of yellow.

It’s a color that celebrates life, joy and hope.

How to use the color Peach Fuzz in decoration?

First of all, The shade combines well with neutral tones such as white, gray and beige, creating a soft and elegant environment.

Therefore, check out the suggestions for how to best use the color of the year 2024 in your decor:


Living Area: Use color on an accent wall and leave the rest in a neutral tone, like white, so you have a focal point.

Bedroom: In the bedroom, you can use the color Peach Fuzz in bedding, curtains, lamps and flower vases, to create an atmosphere of romance and coziness.

Kitchen

Cabinets, countertops, chairs and utensils can receive the tone of the year 2024, after all, this can promote modernity and lightness in the kitchen.

Bathroom

Finally, the Peach Fuzz color is perfect for the bathroom, especially on towels, rugs, soaps and candles, as it creates an environment of relaxation and well-being.


So, did you see how beautiful the color of the year 2024 is according to Pantone? Take advantage of this moment to renovate your home and impress everyone!
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Peach Fuzz is the COLOR of 2024 according to Pantone!
Happy New Year Posh tribe!

The start of a new year is typically a time when people make resolutions, set goals, and begin putting in the work to improve the quality of their lives.

If you haven’t taken the steps to evaluate your style and how you show up for yourself, I’d like for you to include that in your plans for the new year.

It can be easy to fall into a style rut and not put much effort into your appearance — especially after what we’ve been through over the past couple of years…

But think about the last time you wore an outfit that made you feel good about yourself — I bet you felt more confident and productive.

Wouldn’t it be great to feel like that consistently?
Not sure how to do that? I’m here to help.

Five Tips To Help You Step Into the New Year in Style 

1. Get dressed with intent. Don't wait until the "last minute" to throw your outfits together. Be purposeful in how you show up in the world. There are a lot of things we can't control, but how we present ourselves isn't one of them.
2. Know yourself. You know what "they" say..."Everything is not for everybody," or every body for that matter. Wear clothing that flatters your body, and that aligns with your lifestyle, values, and style sensibilities.
3. Don’t be a slave to fashion trends. Fashion trends can be great if done in small doses — and if they work for your style personality. Understand what works for you, and let that dictate your style choices. Cultivating an authentic signature style is much better than jumping on the fashion trend du jour.
4. Take a second look before you leave the house. Step in front of a full length mirror, preferably in the natural light, and make sure everything is "in order."
5. Have fun!  Fashion can be a whole lotta fun. The great thing about style is you can try different things and simply change your outfit if you don't like the way you look. Enjoy the process! 


Final Thoughts

Treat your style the way you’d treat any other investment you’d make in yourself. It takes planning, time, and effort to get the results you’re looking for, and if you don’t know where to start — CONGRATULATIONS! — you’ve already taken the first step by watching my video.
5 Tips To Help You Step Into the New Year In Style
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Hello You!

Taking care of your image goes far beyond what you see.
It’s an act of listening, respect, and intention.

When your appearance reflects who you are, your soul finds peace.✌🏾

And self-care ceases to be vanity and becomes presence.
Because, in the end, what is expressed on the outside always begins on the inside. 💁🏾✨

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

Taking care of your image goes far beyond what you see.
It’s an act of listening, respect, and intention.

When your appearance reflects who you are, your soul finds peace.✌🏾

And self-care ceases to be vanity and becomes presence.
Because, in the end, what is expressed on the outside always begins on the inside. 💁🏾✨

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#goals #motivation #love #success #inspiration mindset
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Hello You!

Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space almost always runs into the same problem: constant clutter, the feeling that everything never fits, and the frustration of seeing their dream turn into chaos (we are in this together Boo). The truth is, a small walk-in closet isn’t impossible; it just requires following a few rules to make the space work. A small space is part of real life, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic. I’d say: well-designed closets aren’t about size, but strategy.

I’ll show you the real secret to a “well-designed” small closets, check it out in the link below:

https://theposhmess.com/heres-the-secret-to-a-well-designed-small-closet/

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space almost always runs into the same problem: constant clutter, the feeling that everything never fits, and the frustration of seeing their dream turn into chaos (we are in this together Boo). The truth is, a small walk-in closet isn’t impossible; it just requires following a few rules to make the space work. A small space is part of real life, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic. I’d say: well-designed closets aren’t about size, but strategy.

I’ll show you the real secret to a “well-designed” small closets, check it out in the link below:

https://theposhmess.com/heres-the-secret-to-a-well-designed-small-closet/

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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theposhmess Jan 3

Hello You!

After watching the fireworks in Rio on New Year’s Eve, I was reminded of how people in Rio de Janeiro live their lives. Anyone who knows “Cariocas” (people from Rio) knows that they have a different lifestyle, simpler, more relaxed, less stressed (laughs). And that led me to the following reflection: is life simple, and do we ourselves complicate it?

We complicate our relationships when we accumulate expectations about other people, or even when we try to accumulate contacts in a blind race for fragile and forced connections.

We complicate our minds when we spend energy trying to solve problems that are outside of our control, problems that we can only accept as they are and then act accordingly.

We complicate choosing an outfit to go out in when we believe we need to have all kinds of pieces, cuts, colors, and textures in our wardrobe, instead of understanding what style makes sense for us, what color palette matches our skin tone, and what pieces we actually need.

We complicate our lives when we let what is external to us dominate our choices.

☝🏾A minimalist life changes everything!✌🏾

On the other hand, life becomes much simpler when we meet our genuine and essential needs, when we enjoy moments with those we love, and when we do things aligned with our purpose.

When I talk about having a simpler life through minimalism, it’s not about misery, scarcity, or giving up the things we like. (We Posh :) 💅
It’s about enlightening ourselves to what truly fills our soul; it’s this inward gaze and this calibrated filter for what comes from the outside.

“Ultimately, a life aligned with the essentials is the path to freeing ourselves from the excesses of the status quo. “ I read this in an article that I thought was worth sharing. 💁🏾✨

“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”
Leonardo da Vinci

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨ and simplicity 🦹🏾‍♂️ - Thi
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Hello You! 

After watching the fireworks in Rio on New Year’s Eve, I was reminded of how people in Rio de Janeiro live their lives.  Anyone who knows “Cariocas” (people from Rio) knows that they have a different lifestyle, simpler, more relaxed, less stressed (laughs). And that led me to the following reflection: is life simple, and do we ourselves complicate it?

We complicate our relationships when we accumulate expectations about other people, or even when we try to accumulate contacts in a blind race for fragile and forced connections.

We complicate our minds when we spend energy trying to solve problems that are outside of our control, problems that we can only accept as they are and then act accordingly.

We complicate choosing an outfit to go out in when we believe we need to have all kinds of pieces, cuts, colors, and textures in our wardrobe, instead of understanding what style makes sense for us, what color palette matches our skin tone, and what pieces we actually need.

We complicate our lives when we let what is external to us dominate our choices.

☝🏾A minimalist life changes everything!✌🏾

On the other hand, life becomes much simpler when we meet our genuine and essential needs, when we enjoy moments with those we love, and when we do things aligned with our purpose.

When I talk about having a simpler life through minimalism, it’s not about misery, scarcity, or giving up the things we like. (We Posh :) 💅
It’s about enlightening ourselves to what truly fills our soul; it’s this inward gaze and this calibrated filter for what comes from the outside.

“Ultimately, a life aligned with the essentials is the path to freeing ourselves from the excesses of the status quo. “ I read this in an article that I thought was worth sharing. 💁🏾✨

“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”
Leonardo da Vinci

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨ and simplicity 🦹🏾‍♂️ - Thi
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theposhmess Dec 31

Transformation is not linear...

To all that YOU are and all that you CAN become, wishing you the most beautiful and magical year ahead 💁🏾✨

Holding space, forever and always and ready to meet you where you are ✌🏾

With Gratitude Always and Forever 💋 - Thi
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Transformation is not linear...

To all that YOU are and all that you CAN become, wishing you the most beautiful and magical year ahead 💁🏾✨

Holding space, forever and always and ready to meet you where you are ✌🏾

With Gratitude Always and Forever 💋 - Thi
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#happynewyear #theposhmess #fireworks #instagood #sliving
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theposhmess Dec 29

Hello You!

You’ve dedicated countless hours to creating the perfect space. But when the sun goes down, the weather turns cloudy, or there simply isn’t much natural light available, you might wonder why your space doesn’t look like those beautiful magazine photos. The truth is, for your home, office, or commercial space to truly shine, the design and lighting need to be carefully planned together.

The lighting of a room can wildly affect the color of anything in that room - from appliances and furniture to the trim and/or walls.

When choosing a lighting temperature for a space, you can consider the intended use of the space, the mood or ambiance you want to create, and other factors like color rendering index (CRI) and lumen count. For example, you might want to use less intense lights in a bedroom to create a comfortable space, or use daylight light bulbs in a bathroom to accurately render colors.

You can also combine different types of lighting, such as dimming lights in the evening to create a different atmosphere.

In conclusion, lighting and color have an important relationship with each other; neither can really exist without the other.  Hopefully you now have an understanding of why that’s the case, and how you can keep this in mind when lighting and decorating your own living space.

✨ Lighting isn’t just illumination—it’s the invisible architecture that shapes how we experience every space.💡✌🏾

Do you need an idea on how to “light up” your space? Send me a message and let’s figure it out together!

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

You’ve dedicated countless hours to creating the perfect space. But when the sun goes down, the weather turns cloudy, or there simply isn’t much natural light available, you might wonder why your space doesn’t look like those beautiful magazine photos. The truth is, for your home, office, or commercial space to truly shine, the design and lighting need to be carefully planned together.

The lighting of a room can wildly affect the color of anything in that room - from appliances and furniture to the trim and/or walls.

When choosing a lighting temperature for a space, you can consider the intended use of the space, the mood or ambiance you want to create, and other factors like color rendering index (CRI) and lumen count. For example, you might want to use less intense lights in a bedroom to create a comfortable space, or use daylight light bulbs in a bathroom to accurately render colors. 

You can also combine different types of lighting, such as dimming lights in the evening to create a different atmosphere.

In conclusion, lighting and color have an important relationship with each other; neither can really exist without the other.  Hopefully you now have an understanding of why that’s the case, and how you can keep this in mind when lighting and decorating your own living space.

✨ Lighting isn’t just illumination—it’s the invisible architecture that shapes how we experience every space.💡✌🏾

Do you need an idea on how to “light up” your space? Send me a message and let’s figure it out together! 

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#lightingdesign #lighting #interiordesign #design #light lightingdesigner homedecor architecture interior lights lightingideas ledlighting ledlights architecturallighting lightinginspiration interiorlighting lamp modernlighting homedesign stagelighting decor interiors lightingsolutions interiordesigner chandelier lightdesign outdoorlighting luxurylighting home
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theposhmess Dec 27

Hello You! 💁🏾✨

In a world that encourages imitation, staying true to your own essence is an act of courage—and also a strategy.

Your image is a reflection of who you are. But it’s also what makes people decide whether they trust you, whether they buy from you, and whether they remember you.

This is the foundation of my work—and also what led me to write about “Style with Purpose” and to develop a method (in progress …) that connects your soul with your unique style.

+Authenticity is what sets you apart.

+Strategy is what sustains you.

Want to learn how to position yourself with truth and purpose?

Send me a direct message or access the link in my bio! Also stay tuned for more coming soon….

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#theposhmess #style #photography #instagram #fashionblogger

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Hello You! 💁🏾✨

In a world that encourages imitation, staying true to your own essence is an act of courage—and also a strategy.

Your image is a reflection of who you are. But it’s also what makes people decide whether they trust you, whether they buy from you, and whether they remember you.

This is the foundation of my work—and also what led me to write about “Style with Purpose” and to develop a method (in progress …) that connects your soul with your unique style. 

+Authenticity is what sets you apart. 

+Strategy is what sustains you.

Want to learn how to position yourself with truth and purpose?

Send me a direct message or access the link in my bio! Also stay tuned for more coming soon….

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#theposhmess #style #photography #instagram #fashionblogger
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theposhmess Dec 24

May the treasures of the present become the golden memories of tomorrow! Merry Christmas everyone 💋

Sending you lots of Joy, Happiness, Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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May the treasures of the present become the golden memories of tomorrow! Merry Christmas everyone 💋

Sending you lots of Joy, Happiness, Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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📸 - @lillydaniellee 
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