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The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

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The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

'The Posh Mess helps you discover your Soul Style — the design practice behind an identity, a closet, and a home that finally feel like you.'

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Creative Solutions, Lifestyle, The Posh Mess, Wellness

Simple Self-Care Activities To Start With

Many people aspire to take better care of themselves; to find a better balance between their work and life.  Taking some time out to refocus is a great, simple way…

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Creative Solutions, Design, Home Decor, Interior Design, The Posh Mess

Williams Sonoma’s New ‘Bridgerton’ Collection Is To Die For

Though plenty of life’s facets—entertaining, dating, and day-to-day social interactions—have become a lot more casual in the last several centuries, one lost art we’d happily revive is the elaborate and extravagant…

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5 Tips To Help Boost Your Style

Hi Posh Squad, I can’t believe we’re approaching the summer, are you on track to achieve your style goals? Hopefully the answer is yes — but if not — and…

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5 Ways to Stretch Your Wardrobe

Hello my Posh friends, When I talk to people about style, I often hear two concerns: “I have a closet full of clothes and nothing to wear.” OR  “I get…

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Accessorize Me

Accessories have an absurd power in the final result of any production, any look. They add information, make the look richer and can even transform a basic outfit into another…

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Think. Design. Create….YOU!

Hello You!  I was that image consultant who mastered the techniques, delivered structure, color, style… But something still bothered me. It wasn’t a lack of commitment: It was a lack…

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    You’re Saving Your Style for a Life You’re Not Living

    Hello, you! You have clothes you never wear. Not because they don’t fit, not because you don’t like them. You don’t wear them because you’re waiting. (I’ve been there.) You’re waiting for the right moment, the right body, the right event; some future version of yourself that will arrive complete and finally deserve the things you’ve already chosen. What you don’t realize is that, while you wait, you’re not standing still. You’re moving away. … and suddenly we’re not talking about clothes. We’re talking about identity. Because wardrobes are rarely just wardrobes. They’re more like little archives of our past selves. The jacket that stays on the hanger, the shoes…

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    Here’s the Secret to a Well-Designed Small Closet

    Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space almost always runs into the same problem: constant clutter, the feeling that everything never fits, and the frustration of seeing their dream turn into chaos (we are in this together Boo). The truth is, a small walk-in closet isn’t impossible; it just requires following a few rules to make the space work. A small space is part of real life, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic. I’d say: well-designed closets aren’t about size, but strategy. I’ll show you the real secret to a “well-designed” small closets, keep reading…. What Defines a Well-Designed…

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    Think. Design. Create….YOU!

    Hello You!  I was that image consultant who mastered the techniques, delivered structure, color, style… But something still bothered me. It wasn’t a lack of commitment: It was a lack of depth. There is definitely a shallow element to any industry focused on appearances, but I think of it this way. Fashion is just the surface and when speaking about the surface sometimes it is very difficult to see what lies beneath. It is hard to distill much from the quotes / social media accounts, etc. of fashion industry people because often times they are attempting to project an image. Usually that image involves things that are somewhat trite –…

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    “Let it Flow, Let it Be, and Let it Come to Me”.

    Things arrive. Solutions appear. What was dark becomes bright —such are the cycles of life. No sea is only rising. No sky is only storms. No season is only cold. No cycle is only decline. I know, there are times when life challenges us—a lot. But the way out will never be despair, but rather the faith that everything falls into place in its own time. In the meantime, our greatest mission is to take care of ourselves and continue building the version of ourselves we will be proud of when the weather improves. “First you become the person, then you live the reality.” This phrase, which I heard from…

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    Be You! : Fashion and the Herd Effect

    Hello You!  In the search for belonging, many people end up following the “herd effect,” adopting fashion trends simply because they are popular. However, fashion should be a unique expression of who you are. As Coco Chanel said, “Fashions fade, style remains.” This personal style is what sets you apart from others, and not every popular trend needs to be in your wardrobe. The herd effect refers to the phenomenon in which individuals imitate the actions of a group, often ignoring their own preferences and individuality. In fashion, this can mean adopting pieces or styles that, while modern, don’t reflect your essence or flatter your body type. A classic example…

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    Finding Your Soul Style

    Hello You! The art of living is not just about our ability to survive and meet our daily needs. Living is also an expression of who we are, our passions, our dreams and, of course, our style. We often hear the phrase “living with style”, but what does that really mean? And how does it apply to our daily lives? We all have a unique personality that is reflected in our daily choices, from the music we listen to to the food we eat. And fashion is no different. Your personal style is an extension of who you are, and finding and embracing it can be an empowering and revealing…

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    Six Limiting Beliefs About Style You Should Ignore

    Hello You! I was recently thinking about all the fashion “rules” that exist and how they can limit our ability to step into our true style. I generally disregard the fashion dos and don’ts, unless they apply to fit and proportion, but for those who still think you have to abide by those outdated and arbitrary ideas, it’s time to rethink things. Below are six outdated fashion myths we’ve been led to believe, and ways you can do things differently. 1.“You’re too old to be fashionable and stylish” Great style is attainable at any age. Look at style icon like Iris Apfel! She was over 100 and was killin’ the…

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    Live Life Ambitchiously Stylishly!

    Hello You! When you feel comfortable and authentic in what you wear, it radiates confidence to the outside world. Knowing your style is like having a secret weapon in your arsenal of self-confidence. Well, I won’t really save the day (or do your laundry) but I will give you all the ideas/ tools you need to find your unique magical style. I’m Thiago, and I am the Chief Design Officer that sleek-high pony: The Posh Mess. I am an expert in “life styling,” which is basically code for helping you get yours back on track and charging forward. I like to use what I call the ‘’(Your Name’s Style Roadmap”)…

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    Denim On Denim!

    Hello You! These days, it seems like denim washes, fits, and rises cycle through periods of popularity every week rather than every decade. (Remember actual trend cycles? Me neither 😉 Because of that, reporting on such changes in the jeans space can, at times, feel repetitive. I’m not going to do that. Instead, I’ve chosen to focus my time and energy on the ways that chic people are wearing their jeans as opposed to the types of jeans they’re wearing.  Denim pieces, depending on the quality, can last a lifetime, so invest in jackets, pants, shorts and shirts that will last a long time and that will certainly complement your outfits. Plus, combining them into complete denim looks is…

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    How To Mix Antique Furniture Into Contemporary Décor

    Hello You! Contemporary décor offers a diverse setting, bringing countless possibilities for expressing PERSONAL STYLE. So much so that it often becomes difficult to decide which approach to follow. It’s not always simple to identify your personal style, but know that if you like antique furniture this is an excellent way to bring personality to your space. Combining the ancient with the contemporary can create visually rich and engaging spaces where the past and present intertwine harmoniously. Furthermore, the insertion of antique furniture can be linked to family heirlooms, bringing emotional memory and history to the decoration of your home. Contrast You may believe that you shouldn’t mix old with…

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Chief Design Officer @ The Posh Mess - ''The Trendy Setter'' - :) * Fashion, Design and Lifestyle Savvy. * Known for being a free spirit with a gypsy soul. *Gifted shopper, Chatty Person, and a natural Jet Setter. * Born to be REAL, not PERFECT !!

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✨When life gives you lemons, make a pink lemonade ✨BE CREATIVE
Hello You! 

Imagine that you are a candle, your essence is like the flame, an inner light and what sets you apart from others.

Everyone has their own light, but if we start wearing clothes, doing hairstyles or smothering our essence as if we were putting a glass on top of the candle, just to meet the standards imposed by others, the flame will slowly go out...

We can even achieve something and become “similar” to what society believes to be the ideal, whether due to the stereotypes imposed and reinforced on us or even due to professional demands to “boost” our career. The truth is that little by little our shine will fade and this inner light will go out, causing us to lose ourselves.

No matter what the barrier that made you extinguish your flame (work, motherhood, routine or any other), know that you can transform it into fuel to shine your inner light even brighter.

In Style & Image consulting, I use self-knowledge tools to understand these barriers, who you really are, what you want to convey with your image and we give new meaning to what is outside your candle.

Throughout the process, you will reconnect with yourself, rekindling your flame so that the brightness of your essence illuminates everything you do each day. After all, you are unique in the world and should always leave your shine wherever you go through your personal image.

Start small. Show up consistently. Celebrate progress. These simple actions will transform your goals into reality. This work takes courage. It takes time. And the results are worth the effort, I promise you.

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Hello You! Imagine that you are a candle, your essence is like the flame, an inner light and what
Hello You! 

Our choices, from what we wear to how we decorate our homes, tell a story about who we are. Every detail is a window into our personality, our tastes and our passions.

When we dress in a way that reflects who we are, we naturally feel more confident. This confidence doesn’t come from being trendy, but from feeling authentic. When we express our personality through our style choices, we are, in effect, communicating with the world without saying a word.

For example, someone who wears vibrant colors and bold prints may want to express their cheerful and energetic approach to life. On the other hand, someone who opts for neutral tones and clean lines may appreciate the elegance of simplicity and serenity….like myself 💁🏾✨

The most important thing is to find a balance that is true to you. It’s not about dressing to impress others, but to feel good about yourself. It’s a form of self-care and self-expression.

Living with style in your everyday life is a personal journey of discovery and expression. It’s not determined by price or fashion, but by how you choose to present yourself and live each day. Ultimately, it’s a celebration of individuality and the confidence that comes from being yourself.

To Remember: YOUR style is an extension of YOUR personality, so celebrate it, live it, and LOVE it!

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! Our choices, from what we wear to how we decorate our homes, tell a story about who we
Hello You! 

I was that image consultant who mastered the techniques, delivered structure, color, style...
But something still bothered me. It wasn’t a lack of commitment: It was a lack of depth.

It was by listening to the stories, insecurities and doubts of each client that I understood:
image alone doesn’t transform anyone. True change begins in front of the mirror.

This insight became fundamental. I realized that the difference in my work was not in what I taught people to wear — but in how I helped each person see themselves with more clarity and truth.

That’s how my work stopped being just “designing” And became a “creator” mentorship that combines image, branding and marketing with strategy.

Because it’s not enough to be good at what you do — you need to build a presence that communicates this with intention.

Positioning yourself requires COURAGE . And every true transformation begins with an honest look within. Are you ready to support your image with the truth?

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! I was that image consultant who mastered the techniques, delivered structure, color,
Hello You! 

I was talking to a friend the other day and we talked about how is painful to realize that certain things, which once made so much sense, now simply no longer fit into our reality. This process of transformation is usually accompanied by a super awful low vibes. Yes, it’s ridiculous and complicated, because each cut, however necessary it may be, causes discomfort.

Likewise, some people will have a hard time accepting your evolution. They may prefer old versions of you that were perhaps more comfortable or “easier” for them. But remember: you are not here to please everyone….besides yourself and your pet 🐶🐕❤️🤷🏾‍♀️

Evolution is not just about external changes, but also about internal revisions of your values, principles, and even “contracts” in your relationships. I believe that growth is the path, and it is there that the greatest discoveries lie. Here we are discovering right?! 

“The only time you are actually growing is when you are uncomfortable.” - T. Harv Eker.

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! I was talking to a friend the other day and we talked about how is painful to realize
Hello You! 

Your home is an extension of your energy field and you may treat it as such! It should feel like a perfect reflection of you.

This is why practices like cleaning your home,
rearranging furniture, organizing your closet and getting rid of objects that are cluttering your space can have profound impact on your own mind, body and spirit

Mastering the art of original living will help you create a life unique as you are. 

Start learning by simply reflecting on the following 3 things:

Become aware that everything is linked. Every being. Every experience. Every choice you make. Every part of your life. Every opportunity you do or don’t take. These pieces come together exuding as your character and will eventually complete the puzzle, which is your life.

Acknowledge that before you nourish anyone or anything else, you must first connect to and nourish yourself, and by doing so, you will make the most of your time here.

Commit to spending as much time on refining your inner world as you do your outer world; fully knowing that if you do, you will feel deeply fulfilled in all of the areas of your life.
After all, your “home” should bring you joy and be a source of positivity.

Let’s step inside the world where life itself becomes a work of art. Because you are a “masterpiece”. 💅🪭

Feel your passions, know your skills, and stay tuned to 

Need help or have any questions, shoot me a message! 

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! Your home is an extension of your energy field and you may treat it as such! It should
Hello You! 

Every “soul” has their own way of creating magic, but there are principles that never go out of style.

These truths are what make your work not just poshnable, but unforgettable.

Watch these 6 principles and let them guide you every time you style.

Which principle speaks to you most? Let me know in the comments!

📌 Save this for your soul style journey.
↗️ Share it with a fellow creative who needs this reminder.

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Hello You! Every “soul” has their own way of creating magic, but there are principles that never
Hello You! 

Many people still believe that personal image is about “fitting into standards” or “following what’s in fashion.”
In fact, it’s quite the opposite.

The image that communicates is one that grows from the inside out.

👉🏾When you understand your essence, your characteristics, your color, your lifestyle, and even the message you want to leave in the world, it all makes sense.

This is the difference between FASHION and STYLE strategy: one uniforms you, the other reveals you. #Capisci 💁🏾

💬Tell me: do you feel that your image today reveals who
you really are? Drop a comment or shoot me a message…

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! Many people still believe that personal image is about “fitting into standards” or
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Hello You! ✨

Style isn’t static—it grows, shifts, and matures right along with you. Looking back at what you wore five years ago, what is one style choice you’ve completely outgrown, and what replaced it?

Real style alignment happens when your wardrobe reflects the person you are today, not who you used to be.

Share your style evolution in the comments below!
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Hello You! ✨

Style isn’t static—it grows, shifts, and matures right along with you. Looking back at what you wore five years ago, what is one style choice you’ve completely outgrown, and what replaced it?

Real style alignment happens when your wardrobe reflects the person you are today, not who you used to be.

Share your style evolution in the comments below! 
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Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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theposhmess Oct 5

Hello You!

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle

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Hello You! 

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle
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theposhmess Oct 4

☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

………….Know your worth and add taxes ☝🏾⭐️
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☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

………….Know your worth and add taxes ☝🏾⭐️
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#instagood #funny #beyou #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Sep 30

I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

You’re welcome 💋
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I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

You’re welcome 💋
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#style #theposhmess #counciousfashion #beyou #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Sep 22

Hello You!

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#beyou #outandloud #self #theposhmess #blackexcellence

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Hello You! 

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#beyou #outandloud #self #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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