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The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

The Posh Mess | Design & Creative Solutions

'The Posh Mess helps you discover your Soul Style — the design practice behind an identity, a closet, and a home that finally feel like you.'

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  • Creative Solutions,  Lifestyle,  The Posh Mess,  Wellness

    “Let it Flow, Let it Be, and Let it Come to Me”.

    Things arrive. Solutions appear. What was dark becomes bright —such are the cycles of life. No sea is only rising. No sky is only storms. No season is only cold. No cycle is only decline. I know, there are times when life challenges us—a lot. But the way out will never be despair, but rather the faith that everything falls into place in its own time. In the meantime, our greatest mission is to take care of ourselves and continue building the version of ourselves we will be proud of when the weather improves. “First you become the person, then you live the reality.” This phrase, which I heard from…

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    5 Suggestions For Homemade Air Freshener (Easy Recipes)

    Nobody likes a stinky house, there are so many simple tricks I’ve learned over the years to freshen up and add fabulous scents to your home!  A simple and effective way to give a special touch to your home, making it more cozy and inviting, is through the use of homemade air fresheners. Therefore, below I have separated some easy recipes for you to create your own homemade air freshener. Check it out! Lavender Without a doubt, one of the most popular flavorings is lavender – a special plant that can provide relaxation and calm. Therefore, separate: 1/2 cup distilled water1/2 cup grain alcohol20 drops of lavender essential oilTo prepare,…

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    One of the keys to having great style…

    Looking your best starts long before you get dressed and one of the keys to having great style is to organize your closet. A disorganized closet has negative energy, and can leave you feeling overwhelmed and uninspired. Here are four reasons why you may want to consider organizing your closet. Benefits of an Organized Closet You’re able to to see what you own. How often do you forget what you have because it’s not easy to see or access? Once you can actually see what you have, assembling your outfits, and mixing and matching becomes easier. You can identify duplicates and wardrobe gaps, making it easier to shop. How many…

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    Simple Self-Care Activities To Start With

    Many people aspire to take better care of themselves; to find a better balance between their work and life.  Taking some time out to refocus is a great, simple way to do that. Our mental and physical wellbeing is so much more important than we may realize and so we need to devote time to it.  Here are some simple self care activities you can start with, maybe this weekend. 1. Put Your Phone In A Drawer Firstly, one of the best and most effective self care activities is to simply switch your phone off and put it in a drawer. Leave it there. Forget about it. Go on a…

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    Wellness and Jet Set

    * Sometimes it can feel like maintaining a healthy lifestyle is an overwhelming challenge that doesn’t fit within the realities of daily life. It’s tough to hold down a full-time job, eat well, train for a marathon, make homemade green juice, spend quality time with your family/partner, and meditate for an hour each day. 😰 * Of course, healthy living can incorporate all of these things (if you want it to), but it doesn’t have to be defined by grandiose displays of health and fitness. * So much of healthy living is really made up of small things we do daily—things that are so small they don’t feel momentous, but…

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Thiago Eloi

Chief Design Officer @ The Posh Mess - ''The Trendy Setter'' - :) * Fashion, Design and Lifestyle Savvy. * Known for being a free spirit with a gypsy soul. *Gifted shopper, Chatty Person, and a natural Jet Setter. * Born to be REAL, not PERFECT !!

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Hello You! Sometimes, the world around us seems a little dull, life can seem gray and colorless Hello You!

Sometimes, the world around us seems a little dull, life can seem gray and colorless. In those moments, we always need to remember our role, our purpose, and above all, our inner light.

When everything seems dark, make your light shine brighter and illuminate the world. Where color is lacking, use your smile to color life. If you encounter thorns, be the beautiful and delicate flower, after all, “you have to endure two or three caterpillars to get to know the butterflies... they say they are so beautiful!”…

You only see the beauty of a rainbow if you know the rain. 🤷🏾‍♀️

- From Me To Myself on rainy day 💁🏾✨

Sending You Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Hello You!

Sometimes, the world around us seems a little dull, life can seem gray and colorless. In those moments, we always need to remember our role, our purpose, and above all, our inner light.

When everything seems dark, make your light shine brighter and illuminate the world. Where color is lacking, use your smile to color life. If you encounter thorns, be the beautiful and delicate flower, after all, “you have to endure two or three caterpillars to get to know the butterflies... they say they are so beautiful!”…

You only see the beauty of a rainbow if you know the rain. 🤷🏾‍♀️

- From Me To Myself on rainy day 💁🏾✨

Sending You Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Hello You! Sometimes, the world around us seems a little dull, life can seem gray and colorless
Hello You!

It’s no use following a “trend” if your personal image doesn’t have a clear, consistent, and coherent positioning that aligns with your essence!

You are unique in the world,the best strategy to boost your “soul style” and achieve your goals is to show what makes you different and more special: YOURSELF!

Create Soul Authenticity isn’t just a buzzword. It’s the foundation of trust and credibility!

“I have a Sunday-to-Sunday kind of relationship.”

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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Hello You! It’s no use following a “trend” if your personal image doesn’t have a clear, consistent,
Hello You! 💁🏾✨

For a successful personal style positioning, your image must represent who you are, your uniqueness, and your essence! 

If you want a strategic image, remember the 3 Cs:

* Comfort ☺️
* Confidence 💪🏾
* Creativity 🦹🏾‍♂️

This framework helps you build outfits by intentionally balancing how they feel (Comfort), how they make you feel about yourself (Confidence), and how they express your unique personality (Creativity).

Even if you start by making small tweaks to your existing wardrobe, using this method makes a huge difference in creating outfits that feel like you instead of like someone else. 

Using the Three Word Method can be a quick, easy way to help add dimension and personality to any outfit with just a quick mental scan of your choices and your goals. 

Give it a try, and see if it helps you discover or refine your style!

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 💁🏾✨ For a successful personal style positioning, your image must represent who you
May the treasures of the present become the golden memories of tomorrow! Merry Christmas everyone 💋

Sending you lots of Joy, Happiness, Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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May the treasures of the present become the golden memories of tomorrow! Merry Christmas everyone
Hello You! 💁🏾✨

In a world that encourages imitation, staying true to your own essence is an act of courage—and also a strategy.

Your image is a reflection of who you are. But it’s also what makes people decide whether they trust you, whether they buy from you, and whether they remember you.

This is the foundation of my work—and also what led me to write about “Style with Purpose” and to develop a method (in progress …) that connects your soul with your unique style. 

+Authenticity is what sets you apart. 

+Strategy is what sustains you.

Want to learn how to position yourself with truth and purpose?

Send me a direct message or access the link in my bio! Also stay tuned for more coming soon….

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 💁🏾✨ In a world that encourages imitation, staying true to your own essence is an act
Hello You! 

You’ve dedicated countless hours to creating the perfect space. But when the sun goes down, the weather turns cloudy, or there simply isn’t much natural light available, you might wonder why your space doesn’t look like those beautiful magazine photos. The truth is, for your home, office, or commercial space to truly shine, the design and lighting need to be carefully planned together.

The lighting of a room can wildly affect the color of anything in that room - from appliances and furniture to the trim and/or walls.

When choosing a lighting temperature for a space, you can consider the intended use of the space, the mood or ambiance you want to create, and other factors like color rendering index (CRI) and lumen count. For example, you might want to use less intense lights in a bedroom to create a comfortable space, or use daylight light bulbs in a bathroom to accurately render colors. 

You can also combine different types of lighting, such as dimming lights in the evening to create a different atmosphere.

In conclusion, lighting and color have an important relationship with each other; neither can really exist without the other. Hopefully you now have an understanding of why that’s the case, and how you can keep this in mind when lighting and decorating your own living space.

✨ Lighting isn’t just illumination—it’s the invisible architecture that shapes how we experience every space.💡✌🏾

Do you need an idea on how to “light up” your space? Send me a message and let’s figure it out together! 

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! You’ve dedicated countless hours to creating the perfect space
Transformation is not linear...

To all that YOU are and all that you CAN become, wishing you the most beautiful and magical year ahead 💁🏾✨

Holding space, forever and always and ready to meet you where you are ✌🏾

With Gratitude Always and Forever 💋 - Thi
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Transformation is not linear... To all that YOU are and all that you CAN become, wishing you the
Hello You! 

Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space almost always runs into the same problem: constant clutter, the feeling that everything never fits, and the frustration of seeing their dream turn into chaos (we are in this together Boo). The truth is, a small walk-in closet isn’t impossible; it just requires following a few rules to make the space work. A small space is part of real life, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic. I’d say: well-designed closets aren’t about size, but strategy.

I’ll show you the real secret to a “well-designed” small closets, check it out in the link below:

https://theposhmess.com/heres-the-secret-to-a-well-designed-small-closet/

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space
Hello You! ✌🏾

How you define your style preferences? 

How to know yourself in today’s world, where we have more but than ever the freedom to express your individuality, values and style preferences?

The key to looking great isn’t following all of the latest fashion trends. It’s staying true to your personal style. But what if you don’t know what your style is? You can develop your unique style by searching for inspiration, creating a mood board, and experimenting with fashion.

Check it out my 5 tips to start unleashing the “fashionista” in you 💁🏾✨
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Hello You! ✌🏾 How you define your style preferences? How to know yourself in today’s world,
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Hello You! ✨

Style isn’t static—it grows, shifts, and matures right along with you. Looking back at what you wore five years ago, what is one style choice you’ve completely outgrown, and what replaced it?

Real style alignment happens when your wardrobe reflects the person you are today, not who you used to be.

Share your style evolution in the comments below!
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Hello You! ✨

Style isn’t static—it grows, shifts, and matures right along with you. Looking back at what you wore five years ago, what is one style choice you’ve completely outgrown, and what replaced it?

Real style alignment happens when your wardrobe reflects the person you are today, not who you used to be.

Share your style evolution in the comments below! 
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Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#PersonalStyle #StyleEvolution #SoulStyle #ThePoshMess #ImageConsulting
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theposhmess Oct 18

Keep doing GREAT sweetie! 💋✌🏾✨
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#FashionPsychology #StyleConfidence #SelfExpression #DressForYourself #ConfidenceThroughStyle MindfulFashion

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Keep doing GREAT sweetie! 💋✌🏾✨
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theposhmess Oct 15

Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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#birthdayreflection #PersonalGrowth #Resilience #AlwaysEvolving #ThePoshMess

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Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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theposhmess Oct 5

Hello You!

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle

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Hello You! 

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle
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theposhmess Oct 4

☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

………….Know your worth and add taxes ☝🏾⭐️
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☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

………….Know your worth and add taxes ☝🏾⭐️
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theposhmess Sep 30

I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

You’re welcome 💋
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I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

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theposhmess Sep 22

Hello You!

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#beyou #outandloud #self #theposhmess #blackexcellence

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Hello You! 

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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theposhmess Sep 20

☀️Summer never goes out of “Style” ✨

Tan lines fade, memories last forever…until next time, summer!
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#summer2026 #summervibes #hellosummer #theposhmess #blackexcellence

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☀️Summer never goes out of “Style” ✨

Tan lines fade, memories last forever…until next time, summer!
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