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'The Posh Mess helps you discover your Soul Style — the design practice behind an identity, a closet, and a home that finally feel like you.'

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  • Creative Solutions,  fashion,  Fashion Design,  Retail,  The Posh Mess

    4 Reasons Why Basics Are An Important Part Of Your Closet

    Hello Posh Squad, When working with clients or helping friends, I emphasize the importance of including a healthy mix of basics, in addition to statement pieces, into their wardrobes. What are wardrobe basics, anyway? Basics are those items that can serve many purposes and are a great foundation for dressing well. Examples include a great pair of jeans, black dress pants, button down shirts, shells, tanks, t-shirts, and more. They are often understated and can either play the background or take center stage — depending on the outfit. What’s the right mix of basics and statement pieces? The ratio of basics to statement pieces will be different for every woman,…

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  • Creative Solutions,  Lifestyle,  The Posh Mess,  Wellness

    Simple Self-Care Activities To Start With

    Many people aspire to take better care of themselves; to find a better balance between their work and life.  Taking some time out to refocus is a great, simple way to do that. Our mental and physical wellbeing is so much more important than we may realize and so we need to devote time to it.  Here are some simple self care activities you can start with, maybe this weekend. 1. Put Your Phone In A Drawer Firstly, one of the best and most effective self care activities is to simply switch your phone off and put it in a drawer. Leave it there. Forget about it. Go on a…

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  • Creative Solutions,  fashion,  Fashion Design,  Retail,  The Posh Mess

    What’s your ”Style Personality”?

    How you define your style preferences?  How to know yourself in today’s world, where we have more than ever the freedom to express your individuality, values and style preferences? The key to looking great isn’t following all of the latest fashion trends. It’s staying true to your personal style. But what if you don’t know what your style is? You can develop your unique style by searching for inspiration, creating a mood board, and experimenting with fashion. What’s your personal style? Style refers to a person’s particular way of expressing themselves—whether that’s through clothing, writing style, or a style of architecture. In the fashion world, “style” is usually shorthand for “personal…

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    The Posh Mess

    In February 2022, I was going through a challenging time in my life and needed a creative outlet to help me redirect my energy. I decided to dip my toe in the water of style blogging and tried to think of a name that represented my point of view about style and fashion based on what I really am — and “The Posh Mess” was born.  The word “posh” is defined as smart, elegant, or fashionable; exclusive: posh clothes and I knew that’s what I want to convey” — a sense of fearlessness when it comes to style. I’ve always been mesmerized by fashion, and all the pretty and sometimes…

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    Closet Detox

    With the change from the winter season to the summer season and starting again with the routine after a well-deserved vacation, I have given myself the task of organizing my closet to renew the energy in my spaces and build my outfits more easily without getting hysterical with the phrase “I have nothing to wear”. So I was aware of the whole process and decided to make a post about it and give you some important tips that will help you optimize your space and time. Closer Pick Step 1.- Take out all your clothes Yes, even if it seems that a hurricane has passed through your room, you must…

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    Wellness and Jet Set

    * Sometimes it can feel like maintaining a healthy lifestyle is an overwhelming challenge that doesn’t fit within the realities of daily life. It’s tough to hold down a full-time job, eat well, train for a marathon, make homemade green juice, spend quality time with your family/partner, and meditate for an hour each day. 😰 * Of course, healthy living can incorporate all of these things (if you want it to), but it doesn’t have to be defined by grandiose displays of health and fitness. * So much of healthy living is really made up of small things we do daily—things that are so small they don’t feel momentous, but…

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    Fashion & Lifestyle

    Many people question this and ask us if it would be just one thing. And the answer is: no. It’s not the same thing and I’m here to explain the difference between them. Fashion is a clothing trend determined at a time and reflects the behavior of society within the contexts in which it is inserted. Style is a set of factors, such as our personality, influences, beliefs, experiences and everything else that concerns our essence. It is he who guarantees a more consistent look, respecting who we are, which brings a deeper bias. This is one of the big differences between fashion and style! Fashion walks with the collective,…

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    Design & Creative Solutions

    What Is a Creative Solution? The Creative Process Design (Interior, Fashion, etc.) bring together two different things: artistic creation and the practical world of commerce. Put simply, it is intelligence / Vision made tridimensional, physical and possible. A designer is a creative artist who deals with the realities of planning, from assessing client needs and crafting a solution to selecting appropriate materials (papers, inks, glues, and varnishes), maintaining strict budgets, and understanding the aesthetics. The Design A designer must make connections between creativity and process in the mind in order to successfully communicate a message to an audience and answer a client’s needs. What Is a Creative Solution? At its…

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Thiago Eloi

Chief Design Officer @ The Posh Mess - ''The Trendy Setter'' - :) * Fashion, Design and Lifestyle Savvy. * Known for being a free spirit with a gypsy soul. *Gifted shopper, Chatty Person, and a natural Jet Setter. * Born to be REAL, not PERFECT !!

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Hello You! Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space Hello You! 

Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space almost always runs into the same problem: constant clutter, the feeling that everything never fits, and the frustration of seeing their dream turn into chaos (we are in this together Boo). The truth is, a small walk-in closet isn’t impossible; it just requires following a few rules to make the space work. A small space is part of real life, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic. I’d say: well-designed closets aren’t about size, but strategy.

I’ll show you the real secret to a “well-designed” small closets, check it out in the link below:

https://theposhmess.com/heres-the-secret-to-a-well-designed-small-closet/

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space almost always runs into the same problem: constant clutter, the feeling that everything never fits, and the frustration of seeing their dream turn into chaos (we are in this together Boo). The truth is, a small walk-in closet isn’t impossible; it just requires following a few rules to make the space work. A small space is part of real life, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic. I’d say: well-designed closets aren’t about size, but strategy.

I’ll show you the real secret to a “well-designed” small closets, check it out in the link below:

https://theposhmess.com/heres-the-secret-to-a-well-designed-small-closet/

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#homedecor #smallcloset #tips #theposhmess #instagood
Hello You! Anyone who dreams of a walk-in closet but can only realize that idea in a small space
Hello You! ✌🏾

How you define your style preferences? 

How to know yourself in today’s world, where we have more but than ever the freedom to express your individuality, values and style preferences?

The key to looking great isn’t following all of the latest fashion trends. It’s staying true to your personal style. But what if you don’t know what your style is? You can develop your unique style by searching for inspiration, creating a mood board, and experimenting with fashion.

Check it out my 5 tips to start unleashing the “fashionista” in you 💁🏾✨
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#personalstyle #fashionista #personalgrowth #theposhmess #blackexcellence
Hello You! ✌🏾 How you define your style preferences? How to know yourself in today’s world,
Hello You! 

Your personal style isn’t random—it’s your soul expressing itself through your clothes. The Soul Style Guide is a journey that goes beyond trends and rules, helping you discover your essence.

When you dress from your essence, your confidence, presence, and energy transform, and creating your own style is much more important than copying others.

Positioning yourself requires COURAGE . And every true transformation begins with an honest look within. Are you ready to embark on this journey? I will show you how! Send me a message or click the links in my bio. 💁🏾✨

Sending YOU Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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#style #styleroadmap #soulstyle #theposhmess #blackexcellence
Hello You! Your personal style isn’t random—it’s your soul expressing itself through your clothes
Hello You! 

Image is not about appearances. It is about communicating your essence with purpose—after all, everyone in this world is unique!

When your visual choices align with who you are, your presence speaks even before a word is spoken.
Posture, expression, colors, fabrics—everything constructs a narrative.

It is not about empty aesthetics. It is about intention, coherence, and truth. For when your image makes sense on the inside, it rings true on the outside.

✨“Your VIBE attracts your TRIBE”✨💁🏾
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#personalimage #style #authenticity #theposhmess #blackexcellence
Hello You! Image is not about appearances
Hello You! 

The art of living is not just about our ability to survive and meet our daily needs. Living is also an expression of who we are, our passions, our dreams and, of course, our style. We often hear the phrase “living with style”, but what does that really mean? And how does it apply to our daily lives?

Living with your own style means intentionally curating your wardrobe and environment to reflect your personality rather than following trends. It involves experimenting with clothes 
that make you feel confident, understanding your body shape, and investing in quality pieces. Developing a personal, authentic style often boosts confidence and simplifies decision-making

Check it out! ☝🏾☝🏾

If you’re looking for a tool to help define your personal style and fall back in love with your closet, Stay tuned and shoot me a message…:I will show you how Boo 💁🏾✨

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light - Thi
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#style #instagood #theposhmess #fashion #blackexcellence
Hello You! The art of living is not just about our ability to survive and meet our daily needs
Hello You! 

Image isn’t about appearances. It’s about communicating your essence with purpose—after all, everyone is unique in this world!

When your visual choices align with who you are, your presence speaks even before words are spoken.
Posture, expression, colors, fabrics—everything builds a narrative.

It’s not about empty aesthetics. It’s about intention, coherence, and truth. Because when your image makes sense on the inside, it holds true on the outside.

If you have been desiring to elevate your style, but find yourself stuck, unsure, or overwhelmed, Im your Style-partner in life and will show you how to find your soul style! Send me a message and let’s get in touch! 💁🏾✨

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! Image isn’t about appearances
“Art says the unsayable; it expresses the inexpressible, translates the untranslatable.”

Leonardo da Vinci

Just like art, personal image is also a form of silent expression that speaks on our behalf. The colors, shapes, and details we choose to communicate carry meanings that go beyond words.

☝🏾What would you like your image to say about you—even when you say absolutely nothing? 

💫May “your art” express what your heart wishes to convey.✨

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#truestyle #truevintage #style #explore #theposhmess
“Art says the unsayable; it expresses the inexpressible, translates the untranslatable.” Leonardo
Hello You! 

Caring for your image goes far beyond what is seen.
It is an act of listening, of respect, and of intention.

When your external appearance reflects who you are, the soul finds peace.✌🏾 

And self-care ceases to be vanity, becoming presence.💁🏾

Because in the end, what is expressed externally always begins internally.

Capisci? 🦹🏾‍♂️

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! Caring for your image goes far beyond what is seen
I’m not saying that billionaire status has already been achieved, but right now, the mindset is that of someone ready for a one-billion-dollar bank transfer. 💁🏾✨

“Only he who can see the invisible can do the impossible.” — Frank Gaines 

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I’m not saying that billionaire status has already been achieved, but right now, the mindset is that
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Keep doing GREAT sweetie! 💋✌🏾✨
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theposhmess Oct 15

Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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Transformation is not linear...

To all that I am and all that I can become, I wish myself the most beautiful and magical year ahead. ✨💛

Because growth never stops, and the pursuit of excellence is a lifelong journey.

Always learning. Always evolving. Always elevating.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ always and forever - Thi
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theposhmess Oct 5

Hello You!

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle

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Hello You! 

Your closet is calling… but are you listening? 👀

Take the quiz. No judgment. Just honesty. 😉

✨ 1. You open your closet and think…
A. “I have nothing to wear.”
B. “I have too much stuff.”
C. “I love most of what I see.”
D. “Who even am I anymore?” 😂

✨ 2. How often do you buy something because you LOVE it… only to never wear it?
A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. Let’s not talk about it 😅

✨ 3. Your closet feels most like:
A. Me
B. A version of me I’m outgrowing
C. A collection of random purchases
D. A work in progress

✨ 4. If your clothes could talk, what would they say?
A. “You know exactly who you are.”
B. “Please stop buying things you don’t need.”
C. “We’re ready for a style makeover!”
D. “LISTEN TO US!” 😂

💛 Your closet might be telling you more than you think.

Your style isn’t just about what looks good. It’s about who you are, how you feel, and what you want the world to see.

So… what is your closet trying to tell you?

Tell me your answers in the comments 👇

Sending you Peace ✌🏾, Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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#ThePoshMess #SoulStyle #PersonalStyle #StylePsychology FindYourStyle ClosetEdit AuthenticStyle
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theposhmess Oct 4

☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

………….Know your worth and add taxes ☝🏾⭐️
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☝🏾 Some things are better in dreams. So I became the dream! ✨

………….Know your worth and add taxes ☝🏾⭐️
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theposhmess Sep 30

I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

You’re welcome 💋
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I’m not spending money, I’m just boosting the economy ✨👌🏾🆙

You’re welcome 💋
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theposhmess Sep 22

Hello You!

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

For those who really want to see me sink, know that I can swim.

When life knocks you down, you know what you have to do? Just keep swimming….and shining ✨ 💋

What doesn’t challenge you, doesn’t change you.

Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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theposhmess Sep 20

☀️Summer never goes out of “Style” ✨

Tan lines fade, memories last forever…until next time, summer!
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#summer2026 #summervibes #hellosummer #theposhmess #blackexcellence

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☀️Summer never goes out of “Style” ✨

Tan lines fade, memories last forever…until next time, summer!
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#summer2026 #summervibes #hellosummer #theposhmess #blackexcellence
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theposhmess Sep 14

Hello You!

Clothing is more than fabric. It’s a form of self-expression, a source of comfort, and sometimes even armor. What you put on in the morning can set the tone for your day, impact your mood, and influence your confidence.

Whether you’re dressing up for a big presentation or pulling on your favorite cozy hoodie at home, your wardrobe decisions may be affecting your mental and emotional state more than you think.

If you’re navigating challenges with self-esteem and identity , you’re not alone and I’m here to help you find your “soul style” —and your confidence—one outfit at a time.✌🏾✨🪡

☝🏾Be Posh. Be Messy. Be You.⚡️

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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Hello You! 

Clothing is more than fabric. It’s a form of self-expression, a source of comfort, and sometimes even armor. What you put on in the morning can set the tone for your day, impact your mood, and influence your confidence. 

Whether you’re dressing up for a big presentation or pulling on your favorite cozy hoodie at home, your wardrobe decisions may be affecting your mental and emotional state more than you think.

If you’re navigating challenges with self-esteem and identity , you’re not alone and I’m here to help you find your “soul style” —and your confidence—one outfit at a time.✌🏾✨🪡

☝🏾Be Posh. Be Messy. Be You.⚡️ 

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨- Thi
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