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✂️ Design & Creative Solutions 📌
✨Fashion & Interior Design🔘Lifestyle Strategist
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“To live a creative life we must lose our fear of being wrong”

Saying goodbye is not easy, but there comes a time when it is necessary. We learn to say goodbye, we learn to put an end to things, to close a chapter, to end stages of life... But to do so, you need to have courage and sincerity, because saying goodbye is giving up what you once believed in, and all the expectations you created.

It is difficult to say goodbye when all you want is to stay.

I am learning that in life, just like in a battle, to save yourself you need to know the right time to recover. Only then will it be possible to move forward with more strength and determination in search of new destinations, new battles and new victories.

Life is a renewal, sometimes you have to die, close cycles, and then be reborn and everything will be different.

“Fear is a phoenix. You can watch it burn a thousand times and still it will return.” — Leigh Bardugo
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#overcoming #faith #success #growthmindset #motivation #freedom #goals #victory #keepgoing #godisgood #recovery #selflove #innerstrength #challenges #pray #difficulties #wordofgod #entrepreneur #love #mentalhealthawareness #motivational #chosen #winner #possibilities #renewmind #jesuscrist #crist #faithfulness #theposhness

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Saying goodbye is not easy, but there comes a time when it is necessary. We learn to say goodbye, we learn to put an end to things, to close a chapter, to end stages of life... But to do so, you need to have courage and sincerity, because saying goodbye is giving up what you once believed in, and all the expectations you created.

It is difficult to say goodbye when all you want is to stay.

I am learning that in life, just like in a battle, to save yourself you need to know the right time to recover. Only then will it be possible to move forward with more strength and determination in search of new destinations, new battles and new victories.

Life is a renewal, sometimes you have to die, close cycles, and then be reborn and everything will be different.

“Fear is a phoenix. You can watch it burn a thousand times and still it will return.” — Leigh Bardugo
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#overcoming #faith #success #growthmindset #motivation #freedom #goals #victory #keepgoing #godisgood #recovery #selflove #innerstrength #challenges #pray #difficulties #wordofgod #entrepreneur #love #mentalhealthawareness #motivational #chosen #winner #possibilities #renewmind #jesuscrist #crist #faithfulness #theposhness

Hello You!

A style statement is an opportunity to “dress for the job you don’t have” or dress for the person you want to be.

Clothing is not just a utility, but it’s often used to make a statement—whether subtle or overt. Anything from cut, color, fabric, texture to level of dressiness—can help style become a powerful tool.

I generally think very carefully about what I’m wearing and what I’m trying to say, because I think about style as a way to tell a story.

So the next time you open your closet, remember that every piece is an opportunity to tell your story. Choose with intention, dress with confidence, and most of all, celebrate the joy of being uniquely you. And in doing so, not only will you “SLAY the style,” but you’ll also light up the world with your authenticity.

Thank you for reading and please check me out on Facebook and Instagram for more style & design -related content.
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Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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#statementstyle #fashionforward #luxuryfashion #statementjewelry #fashion #pakistanifashion #stylestatement #handcrafted #sustainablefashion #luxurylifestyle #fashionaccessories #advancedstyle #fallstyle #holidaygifts #summervibes #thanksgiving #ecofriendlyfashion #jianhuilondon #handcraftedjewelry #jianhuilondonnecklace #fashionistafaves #gifts #sophisticatedstyle #dresstoimpress #brisbanestyle #statementearrings #fashionandmusic #stylesmatter #houseofdesignersindia #shoplocal

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Hello You!

A style statement is an opportunity to “dress for the job you don’t have” or dress for the person you want to be.

Clothing is not just a utility, but it’s often used to make a statement—whether subtle or overt. Anything from cut, color, fabric, texture to level of dressiness—can help style become a powerful tool.

I generally think very carefully about what I’m wearing and what I’m trying to say, because I think about style as a way to tell a story.

So the next time you open your closet, remember that every piece is an opportunity to tell your story. Choose with intention, dress with confidence, and most of all, celebrate the joy of being uniquely you. And in doing so, not only will you “SLAY the style,” but you’ll also light up the world with your authenticity.

Thank you for reading and please check me out on Facebook and Instagram for more style & design -related content.
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Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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#statementstyle #fashionforward #luxuryfashion #statementjewelry #fashion #pakistanifashion #stylestatement #handcrafted #sustainablefashion #luxurylifestyle #fashionaccessories #advancedstyle #fallstyle #holidaygifts #summervibes #thanksgiving #ecofriendlyfashion #jianhuilondon #handcraftedjewelry #jianhuilondonnecklace #fashionistafaves #gifts #sophisticatedstyle #dresstoimpress #brisbanestyle #statementearrings #fashionandmusic #stylesmatter #houseofdesignersindia #shoplocal

Hello You!

Having a unique personal style can be one of the best ways to express who you are and how you feel about the world.

Creating your own personal style is a journey that can be challenging but also rewarding. You can feel most confident, comfortable and powerful when you dress in a way that represents your personality.

Your image and personal style are people’s “first impression” of you and of course, we want it to be the best possible… SLAY 👨🏾‍🎤

Creating your own unique personal style is an exciting and rewarding journey. By getting to know your body, discovering your favorite colors, your personal style and creating a basic wardrobe, you can start to express your personality through fashion.

But remember that anyone can wear any type of clothing and that beauty is the diversity of bodies and choices. We are all unique beings and my “Style DNA” is not yours and vice versa.

Go ahead follow @theposhmess to stay up to date with all the latest style news, trends, tips and inspiration to Lifestyling your journey!
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#styledna #styleartist #imageconsultant #marianaromanic #selleriaveneta #thestylealchemist #colorexpert #armocromia #fashionprofessional #styleconsultant #over #italianfashion #luxuryitaliandesign #madeinitaly #fashion #personalstyle #style #coloranalysis #colortest #designedinitaly #personalstylist #fashionstyle #instagood #ootd #colorpalette #instastyle #byferial #madeinitalyclothing #seasonalcolors #masterpiecestyle

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Hello You!

Having a unique personal style can be one of the best ways to express who you are and how you feel about the world.

Creating your own personal style is a journey that can be challenging but also rewarding. You can feel most confident, comfortable and powerful when you dress in a way that represents your personality.

Your image and personal style are people’s “first impression” of you and of course, we want it to be the best possible… SLAY 👨🏾‍🎤

Creating your own unique personal style is an exciting and rewarding journey. By getting to know your body, discovering your favorite colors, your personal style and creating a basic wardrobe, you can start to express your personality through fashion.

But remember that anyone can wear any type of clothing and that beauty is the diversity of bodies and choices. We are all unique beings and my “Style DNA” is not yours and vice versa.

Go ahead follow @theposhmess to stay up to date with all the latest style news, trends, tips and inspiration to Lifestyling your journey!
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#styledna #styleartist #imageconsultant #marianaromanic #selleriaveneta #thestylealchemist #colorexpert #armocromia #fashionprofessional #styleconsultant #over #italianfashion #luxuryitaliandesign #madeinitaly #fashion #personalstyle #style #coloranalysis #colortest #designedinitaly #personalstylist #fashionstyle #instagood #ootd #colorpalette #instastyle #byferial #madeinitalyclothing #seasonalcolors #masterpiecestyle

Hello You!

Before I discovered my style, I was extremely insecure about wearing anything that was a little different or that would draw attention to myself. I would play it safe, play it “acceptable,” and feel butterflies in my stomach just thinking about how people would react. But as I studied design through college, I learned more about myself and my own style, and got to know myself better as a whole, I started taking more risks.

This process didn’t happen overnight. Being myself and discovering my own style was—and still is—a journey. Because as I change, get older, discover new things, it impacts my style. Of course, my core is the same; I just keep getting better. And that means, in my case, wearing more colors, more layers, more boots, chunky sneakers, and Overalls and/or Jumpsuits (IM OBSSESSED!!) 🤩

Have courage for me is being true to who you are and what you like, no matter what. Life is too short, the world is too big, and we have so many super important things to worry about. Why give up something we like for fear of being judged by others?

And you know what? We end up inspiring other people when we start doing this. I come from a small town (which makes the reactions even more diverse) and I know that dressing the way I do encourages others to do the same.

A commitment I have to myself is to be absolutely the way I want, always. And doing this has changed my relationship with my body, my clothes, my life. Sure, sometimes I feel insecure, but that doesn’t last. A colorful outfit and I’m happy again.

If you’re interested in learning more about style and aesthetics, Shoot me a message so we can talk about it together!

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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#styleinspiration #style #fashion #fashionstyle #ootd #styleblogger #fashionblogger #styleinspo #fashionista #outfitoftheday #styleoftheday #streetstyle #outfitinspiration #instafashion #stylefashion

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Hello You!

Before I discovered my style, I was extremely insecure about wearing anything that was a little different or that would draw attention to myself. I would play it safe, play it “acceptable,” and feel butterflies in my stomach just thinking about how people would react. But as I studied design through college, I learned more about myself and my own style, and got to know myself better as a whole, I started taking more risks.

This process didn’t happen overnight. Being myself and discovering my own style was—and still is—a journey. Because as I change, get older, discover new things, it impacts my style. Of course, my core is the same; I just keep getting better. And that means, in my case, wearing more colors, more layers, more boots, chunky sneakers, and Overalls and/or Jumpsuits (IM OBSSESSED!!) 🤩

Have courage for me is being true to who you are and what you like, no matter what. Life is too short, the world is too big, and we have so many super important things to worry about. Why give up something we like for fear of being judged by others?

And you know what? We end up inspiring other people when we start doing this. I come from a small town (which makes the reactions even more diverse) and I know that dressing the way I do encourages others to do the same.

A commitment I have to myself is to be absolutely the way I want, always. And doing this has changed my relationship with my body, my clothes, my life. Sure, sometimes I feel insecure, but that doesn’t last. A colorful outfit and I’m happy again.

If you’re interested in learning more about style and aesthetics, Shoot me a message so we can talk about it together!

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨ - Thi
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#styleinspiration #style #fashion #fashionstyle #ootd #styleblogger #fashionblogger #styleinspo #fashionista #outfitoftheday #styleoftheday #streetstyle #outfitinspiration #instafashion #stylefashion

Grateful for the little things, big things, and everything in between.🙏🏾

Wishing you a harvest of blessings, good health and lots of beautiful things…💋
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#thanksgiving #thankful #turkey #fall #family #happythanksgiving #grateful #love #christmas #thanksgivingdinner #blackfriday #holiday #turkeyday #holidays #gratitude #food #blessed #givethanks #happythanksgivng #autumn #thanks #thanksgivingday #smallbusiness #november #instagood #holidayseason #friends #halloween #foodie #theposhmess

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Grateful for the little things, big things, and everything in between.🙏🏾

Wishing you a harvest of blessings, good health and lots of beautiful things…💋
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#thanksgiving #thankful #turkey #fall #family #happythanksgiving #grateful #love #christmas #thanksgivingdinner #blackfriday #holiday #turkeyday #holidays #gratitude #food #blessed #givethanks #happythanksgivng #autumn #thanks #thanksgivingday #smallbusiness #november #instagood #holidayseason #friends #halloween #foodie #theposhmess

Hello You!

Have you ever stopped to think that you really want something, but you don’t enjoy the peculiarities of the path taken to reach your goal? We have this relationship of extreme anxiety in the world we live in today, and this is no coincidence. We are all constantly seeking new achievements, but we become so obsessed with the end of the journey that we don’t enjoy the path we built to get there.

You can be sure that if you focus on your goals without stopping living the journey to achieve them, your achievements will be much more enjoyable and meaningful, because happiness lies precisely in the construction of the entire process and not just in a single result. You will experience good and bad moments (i wish we could avoid the bad) but they will be the ones that will take you closer and closer to your desire.

So remember: enjoy the journey of life, not just the final destination where you want to reach. No matter what we achieve, there are always new journeys to embark on, so we can also get used to enjoying them.

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨
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#enjoylife #enjoy #love #travel #nature #happy #instagood #photography #instagram #lifestyle #goodvibes #life #smile #happiness #photooftheday #travelphotography #enjoythemoment #picoftheday #beautiful #explore #loveyourself #summer #friends #enjoythelittlethings #naturephotography #like #behappy #positivevibes #motivation

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Hello You!

Have you ever stopped to think that you really want something, but you don’t enjoy the peculiarities of the path taken to reach your goal? We have this relationship of extreme anxiety in the world we live in today, and this is no coincidence. We are all constantly seeking new achievements, but we become so obsessed with the end of the journey that we don’t enjoy the path we built to get there.

You can be sure that if you focus on your goals without stopping living the journey to achieve them, your achievements will be much more enjoyable and meaningful, because happiness lies precisely in the construction of the entire process and not just in a single result. You will experience good and bad moments (i wish we could avoid the bad) but they will be the ones that will take you closer and closer to your desire.

So remember: enjoy the journey of life, not just the final destination where you want to reach. No matter what we achieve, there are always new journeys to embark on, so we can also get used to enjoying them.

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨
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#enjoylife #enjoy #love #travel #nature #happy #instagood #photography #instagram #lifestyle #goodvibes #life #smile #happiness #photooftheday #travelphotography #enjoythemoment #picoftheday #beautiful #explore #loveyourself #summer #friends #enjoythelittlethings #naturephotography #like #behappy #positivevibes #motivation

Hello You!

Judging others is not seeing each other’s truth.

In today’s society, we live in relationships in which we judge and are judged a lot.

Each person sees the world from their own perspective. It is as if each of us had glasses that imposed these lenses on every existing relationship (and even when we look within ourselves).

From my perspective, each perception is always interpreted: and even if I try very hard to do so, it will always be from my narrative; the other will never have access to my own lenses. At best, he can try hard to imagine what it would be like... But then this imagination will only be possible through the repertoire of his lenses.

It’s as if judging others ensures that “I’m on the right path”…. But life is not like that... deep down, we all know that no boat is enough to cross the river of life.

I have my truth and you have yours. RESPECT is me validating your truth, even if I don’t understand it or disagree with you (the opposite of this is hate speech).

Having a truth does not mean exporting it to others as if it were useful to them.

Assuming a point of view as “exportable”, closes instead of opening. It is reductionist and simplistic, and easily becomes fascist 👹

One truth prevailing over another implies assuming that some are more human than others (and we know where that leads)…

“Be curious, not judgmental.”
- Walt Whitman

Curiosity doesn’t come with a ‘bad’ feeling, judgement usually does.

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨
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#becuriousnotjudgemental #positivitybreedspositivity #positivityisachoice #positivityiskey #findyourjoyinlife #findyourjoy #lookforthegoodandyouwillfindit #positivitywins #positivitymatters #lookforthegoodinothers #lookforthegoodineveryday #girlseverywherematter #ofno #positivityinspires #positivityalways #positivityisthekey #positivityiscontagious #positivitygoesalongway #createinspirepositivity #positivityispower #positivityattractspositivity #positivityalwayswins #positivityovernegativity #positivityandlove #tedlasso #alwayslearningnewthings #lifelonglearners #waltwhitman #believe #quote

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Hello You!

Judging others is not seeing each other’s truth.

In today’s society, we live in relationships in which we judge and are judged a lot.

Each person sees the world from their own perspective. It is as if each of us had glasses that imposed these lenses on every existing relationship (and even when we look within ourselves).

From my perspective, each perception is always interpreted: and even if I try very hard to do so, it will always be from my narrative; the other will never have access to my own lenses. At best, he can try hard to imagine what it would be like... But then this imagination will only be possible through the repertoire of his lenses.

It’s as if judging others ensures that “I’m on the right path”…. But life is not like that... deep down, we all know that no boat is enough to cross the river of life.

I have my truth and you have yours. RESPECT is me validating your truth, even if I don’t understand it or disagree with you (the opposite of this is hate speech).

Having a truth does not mean exporting it to others as if it were useful to them.

Assuming a point of view as “exportable”, closes instead of opening. It is reductionist and simplistic, and easily becomes fascist 👹

One truth prevailing over another implies assuming that some are more human than others (and we know where that leads)…

“Be curious, not judgmental.”
- Walt Whitman

Curiosity doesn’t come with a ‘bad’ feeling, judgement usually does.

Sending you Peace ✌🏾 Love ❤️ & Light ✨
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📸. @katie__golightly
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#becuriousnotjudgemental #positivitybreedspositivity #positivityisachoice #positivityiskey #findyourjoyinlife #findyourjoy #lookforthegoodandyouwillfindit #positivitywins #positivitymatters #lookforthegoodinothers #lookforthegoodineveryday #girlseverywherematter #ofno #positivityinspires #positivityalways #positivityisthekey #positivityiscontagious #positivitygoesalongway #createinspirepositivity #positivityispower #positivityattractspositivity #positivityalwayswins #positivityovernegativity #positivityandlove #tedlasso #alwayslearningnewthings #lifelonglearners #waltwhitman #believe #quote

Hello You!

Autumn presents the perfect opportunity to experiment with unexpected combinations that feel fresh and refined, whilst still embracing the natural beauty of the season with signature shades such as burgundy and brown.

The warm-toned edition for our lovely Spring and Autumn fashionistas.

You requested more colourful outfit combinations for this season, what are your thoughts?

Do you have a favourite you will be trying? Drop a comment, let us know 💁🏾✨
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#colourtrend #balayage #specialistideicolpidisole #hairstyling #specialistidelbalayage #colpidisoleroma #colpidisole #balayageroma #parrucchiereroma #parrucchiereromanord #specialistidelleschiariture #parrucchierelabaro #specialistidelloshatus #shatush #haircolor #effettiluce #homedecor #colourtrends #trend #taglioscalato #fashion #winter #colour #inspiration #colours #taglioscalatolungo #outfit #colourlover #color #inspiredbycolour

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Hello You!

Autumn presents the perfect opportunity to experiment with unexpected combinations that feel fresh and refined, whilst still embracing the natural beauty of the season with signature shades such as burgundy and brown.

The warm-toned edition for our lovely Spring and Autumn fashionistas.

You requested more colourful outfit combinations for this season, what are your thoughts?

Do you have a favourite you will be trying? Drop a comment, let us know 💁🏾✨
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#colourtrend #balayage #specialistideicolpidisole #hairstyling #specialistidelbalayage #colpidisoleroma #colpidisole #balayageroma #parrucchiereroma #parrucchiereromanord #specialistidelleschiariture #parrucchierelabaro #specialistidelloshatus #shatush #haircolor #effettiluce #homedecor #colourtrends #trend #taglioscalato #fashion #winter #colour #inspiration #colours #taglioscalatolungo #outfit #colourlover #color #inspiredbycolour

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